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Valentine's Day Open Thread

From our heart to yours, Happy Valentine's Day.

If you have a romantic event planned, feel free to share. If not, this is an open thread, all topics welcome.

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    For my wife I wrote a "poem" (5.00 / 10) (#1)
    by Slado on Sat Feb 14, 2015 at 04:28:13 AM EST
    She has been a superstar these past few months all things considered so even though I'm not a poet I wrote her this to let her know how much she means to me...

    Reflecting

    As I lay awake at night I reflect on my life past
    Of memories and happiness that I could always grasp
    The joy and love and peace I find are mine to hold and cherish
    And it was my wife who helped me catch this life that will not perish

    Hope you and your loved ones make the most of this day.   Our kids are in FL with the grandparents so I get her all to myself.  

    Flowers and together time will be enough to make this one a special day.


    I hope (5.00 / 2) (#2)
    by Ga6thDem on Sat Feb 14, 2015 at 08:37:18 AM EST
    you and your wife have a wonderful day!

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    That is lovely, Slado. (5.00 / 1) (#4)
    by caseyOR on Sat Feb 14, 2015 at 12:39:18 PM EST
     I hope you and your wife have the sweetest weekend ever.

    How great is it that the kids are at the grandparents'?

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    and, thank you (none / 0) (#6)
    by NYShooter on Sat Feb 14, 2015 at 02:07:22 PM EST
    for the reference to, "my wife," instead of the (yuch) "the spouse."

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    Wife or Bride (5.00 / 1) (#7)
    by Slado on Sat Feb 14, 2015 at 02:21:04 PM EST
    those are my two descriptions for her.

    Spouse is way to plain.

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    Thought I would share this article (5.00 / 3) (#19)
    by Anne on Sun Feb 15, 2015 at 05:39:21 PM EST
    from the Baltimore Sun's TV critic, who is weighing in on the Brian Williams debacle.  The "meat:"

    Some still disagree about Williams. Their narrative is that he was a fine journalist who blew all that up with his self-aggrandizing lies that came to light in recent days.

    But the fact is that, as managing editor of NBC News' flagship broadcast, Williams helped drive it into journalistic bankruptcy.

    Exhibit A: NBC gives Williams a prime-time newsmagazine, and he hires Chelsea Clinton as a special correspondent at $600,000 a year. And he showcases her sorry work.

    This sent a demoralizing message to the real journalists at NBC News, especially those in combat zones who were in real danger and getting paid far less than $600,000 a year. And this for someone without a bit of journalistic training or experience, who during her mother's 2008 presidential campaign refused to even talk to the media.

    But there are many other examples, the most recent being an incorrect report on the "NBC Nightly News with Brian Williams" that the gunmen responsible for murdering 12 people at the Paris offices of the satirical magazine Charlie Hebdo had been killed or were in custody when that was not yet the case.

    Even after the "exclusive" report by Pete Williams was exposed as false by law enforcement authorities and other publications, it remained on the "Nightly News" website for more than an hour after the broadcast.

    Brian Williams acknowledged the mistake on air Jan. 8 during the "NBC Nightly News," but if there was any blame suggested by his words, it was directed at the two anonymous "sources" Pete Williams based his report on -- not NBC's news operation for going with their words.

    But worse, "NBC Nightly News" made a similar mistake a year earlier with tweets about a mall shooting in Columbia and refused to even acknowledge it, despite my calling the network repeatedly in an effort to discuss it.

    If nothing else, maybe this is the point where the networks do more "journalism," and less entertainment - yeah, they'll be doing it because there's money in stealing viewers from NBC, but if it ends up with better reporting, so much the better.

    RIP Leslie Gore (5.00 / 1) (#31)
    by CaptHowdy on Mon Feb 16, 2015 at 07:08:50 PM EST
    Sorry LESLEY (none / 0) (#33)
    by CaptHowdy on Mon Feb 16, 2015 at 07:17:33 PM EST
    lol; It's your party (none / 0) (#35)
    by Mr Natural on Mon Feb 16, 2015 at 08:10:10 PM EST
    ... serving on the Oklahoma House Committee on Education, who voted today to prohibit Advanced Placement (AP) U.S. history courses in that state's public high schools.

    Readin', Writin', n Weldin's all the Book larnin' (none / 0) (#65)
    by Mr Natural on Wed Feb 18, 2015 at 01:02:48 AM EST
    any kid needs.

    Fisher said the Advanced Placement history class fails to teach "American exceptionalism."

    Whadda buncha moroons.

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    I'll be getting snowed in (none / 0) (#3)
    by CST on Sat Feb 14, 2015 at 10:51:30 AM EST
    Again.  So no going out anywhere.  But at least this blizzard is hitting on a weekend when I'm visiting the fellow, so it will be a lot nicer being snowed in together.  And since he works on weekends, but will be getting off due to the snow, in a way the snow is a Valentine's gift.

    At this point the situation in the city is already so bad, I'm not really sure how another foot or two could make things much worse.

    Here in the SouthWest (none / 0) (#8)
    by desertswine on Sat Feb 14, 2015 at 02:50:38 PM EST
    we've been trending about 20degrees above normal for the last couple of weeks.  It's so mild it's scary.  Might go down to Bosque del Apache this weekend to see the cranes (if they're still even here).

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    Finally expected to get some snow (none / 0) (#10)
    by CaptHowdy on Sat Feb 14, 2015 at 04:24:37 PM EST
    sunday night into Monday.  

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    Nothing romantic this Valentines Day for me (none / 0) (#5)
    by Zorba on Sat Feb 14, 2015 at 12:45:23 PM EST
    Mr. Zorba is traveling in Europe for his job, and won't be back until Sunday night.


    12 Monkeys (none / 0) (#9)
    by CaptHowdy on Sat Feb 14, 2015 at 04:23:20 PM EST
    i have been recording this series on SyFy but just got around to it.  It's really pretty good.  There is a marathon of all the episodes so far this Monday afternoon.  If you are snowed in, we expect to be, might be a good way to spend some time.

    Don't expect the movie.  It's completely different.

    And if you're not snowed in, ... (none / 0) (#16)
    by Donald from Hawaii on Sun Feb 15, 2015 at 04:32:01 PM EST
    ... then please don't waste your time seeing "Kingsman: The Secret Service." Trust me, I've already done that for you. The preponderance of gratuitous violence and gore renders it the most visceral case of cinematic excess I've seen in a long, long time, and it's clearly an early frontrunner for worst movie of 2015.

    Boo. Hiss.

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    Thanks for the heads up. (none / 0) (#17)
    by vml68 on Sun Feb 15, 2015 at 05:15:51 PM EST
    I "watched" (had to close my eyes for most of the film) 'The Equalizer' a few days ago. What a waste of my time. Talk about excessive violence!

    Hopefully, next time I will pay more attention to the story than the star cast before I rent a movie.

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    "Kingman" is far worse. (none / 0) (#23)
    by Donald from Hawaii on Sun Feb 15, 2015 at 08:39:16 PM EST
    Several scenes were really stomach-churning. We were guilty of the same thing, picking a movie by its cast, having noted that it starred Colin Firth, Samuel L. Jackson and Michael Caine. What could possibly go wrong with these guys, right? Well, lots of things, as it turns out.

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    Am hoping tonight's 40th anniversary (none / 0) (#18)
    by Anne on Sun Feb 15, 2015 at 05:31:52 PM EST
    of SNL will be good - am going to record it, since it starts at 7...

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    I'd be a bad person to discuss SNL (5.00 / 2) (#30)
    by CoralGables on Mon Feb 16, 2015 at 01:39:34 PM EST
    as the last time I viewed it, Mr. Bill's dog jumped through a fiery hoop somewhere around 1978.

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    I enjoyed it (none / 0) (#25)
    by McBain on Mon Feb 16, 2015 at 01:32:42 AM EST
    I skipped through about a third but it was better than most anniversary shows.  Did Eddie Murphy only do that one quick monologue bit? I was hoping he would do an actual sketch.

    My favorite cast/era was either the Martin Short/Christopher Guest days or the Phil Hartman/Dana Carvey days.  


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    I could have done without the (none / 0) (#26)
    by Anne on Mon Feb 16, 2015 at 06:42:02 AM EST
    overly-long "Californians" sketch.  And I wasn't crazy about the music: neither Paul McCartney nor Paul Simon can sing live worth a damn anymore, and I hate seeing such formerly great talents showing the world how much they've lost.

    There were parts we really enjoyed, but for my money, there weren't enough of those.  

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    Best topical line of the night ,,, (5.00 / 1) (#40)
    by Donald from Hawaii on Tue Feb 17, 2015 at 03:05:48 AM EST
    ... was delivered by Jane Curtin on "Weekend Update":

    "Times have changed since the first time I sat behind this desk. For example, 40 years ago I used to be the only pretty blonde woman reading the fake news. Now there's a whole network devoted to that."


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    Jane Curtin's still got it (none / 0) (#44)
    by CST on Tue Feb 17, 2015 at 09:26:18 AM EST
    And that was the best line of the night.  Dana Carvey and Steve Martin too.  Everyone else on the other hand...

    People who do too many drugs don't age very well, and neither do their voices.  Especially the musicians.  Take note Miley - who I thought was by far the best singer on stage that night, although I missed about a third of the show including Fallon and Timberlake.

    Everyone seems to have hated the Californians, I actually kind of liked it, until Taylor Swift showed up and completely bombed that accent.  Her inclusion there just felt forced, she's not a comedian.

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    I would have liked to have seen more (none / 0) (#52)
    by Anne on Tue Feb 17, 2015 at 10:11:58 AM EST
    of Fallon and Timberlake, as well as Andy Samberg - I think they are all very good.

    Loved Jane Curtin, and agree she had the best line of the night.

    "Wayne's World" was pretty good, too, I thought.

    It really says something about the show and the people behind it - Lorne Michaels and the writers - that it's still relevant 40 years after it started (though I do think it's had some not-so-good years).

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    Emma Stone (none / 0) (#53)
    by jbindc on Tue Feb 17, 2015 at 10:18:37 AM EST
    Did a great impersonation of Roseanne Roseannadanna.  And Melissa McCarthy as Matt Foley was hilarious.  

    Surprised Fallon and Timberlake could sing "Dick in a Box" at the very beginning, which was the 8 o'clock hour.  

    Wished Eddie Murphy would have done something, and I wished they would have cut all the musical numbers, except maybe Miley Cyrus, who did an amazing job on "50 Ways to Leave Your Lover," which I imagine couldn't have been too easy with Paul Simon sitting 20 feet away!  (It makes me sad to watch Paul McCartney now as he just doesn't have the chops, and Kanye sucks and was down right creepy, not to mention the "Kanye tries to run up to the stage" bit wasn't funny after the 2nd and 3rd time).

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    Miley Cyrus was good. (5.00 / 1) (#54)
    by caseyOR on Tue Feb 17, 2015 at 10:24:30 AM EST
    I am not a Miley fan. I am not her target demographic by a long shot. That said, I loved her rendition of 50 Ways to Leave Your Lover.

    I was pleasantly surprised by her performance. And it was the best musical performance of the night.

    And, yes, it was a little sad to watch Paul McCartney. He just cannot hit those notes anymore.

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    I also really liked (none / 0) (#56)
    by CST on Tue Feb 17, 2015 at 10:35:00 AM EST
    Bill Murray's Jaws song.  I forgot about that but it was definitely one of the highlights.

    Timberlake is one of the few singers who is actually a natural comedian, a combo that works so well on SNL, so I'm sorry I missed that part.

    I agree with the Kanye criticism, he just wasn't good.  He got too crazy with the set and missed the vocals.  Realizing he's certainly not everyone's cup of tea - I actually am a big fan of Kanye's music, although he seems to be on an electronica kick that I can't fully get into.  I have seen him perform live in concert before, so I know he is very capable of being a great live performer, but that was just bad. Miley Cyrus crushed it though.  Which going back to the Katy Perry discussion from the Superbowl, just goes to show that some pop stars CAN sing.

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    Miley does a very nice version (none / 0) (#59)
    by jondee on Tue Feb 17, 2015 at 01:37:51 PM EST
    of the Dylan sing You're Gonna Make Me Lonesome on the recent Dylan tribute CD..

    She has one of those voices that sounds more European, like she should be singing in French in a smoky café in Paris..

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    I liked the Californians (none / 0) (#70)
    by Militarytracy on Thu Feb 19, 2015 at 07:54:30 AM EST
    My husband thought Miley had a great voice.  He did not know who she was at first, and he missed all controversies.

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    Louis CK made a good point (none / 0) (#27)
    by McBain on Mon Feb 16, 2015 at 12:43:10 PM EST
    most of those SNL sketches are too long.

    I don't like the recurring sketches/characters.  If it's funny once, it's usually not as funny the second time.  However, you can't blame Lorne Michaels for using a formula that has worked for 40 years.  Those recurring characters lead to profitable movies.  

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    The Jeopardy skit was hilarious... (none / 0) (#28)
    by Anne on Mon Feb 16, 2015 at 12:56:52 PM EST
    and that was a recurring bit for some years.

    I still chuckle thinking about the Sean Connery character asking for the category  "Le T!ts Now" instead of "Let it Snow," and "Whore Ads" instead of "Who Reads."

    And Jim Carrey's Jeopardy appearance as Matthew McConaughey was spot-on.

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    I don't like the skits that (none / 0) (#29)
    by nycstray on Mon Feb 16, 2015 at 01:09:46 PM EST
    don't really wrap up. Noticed that again last night. It's like the skit is moving along and then just sorta hangs before breaking up and off to commercial or something else.

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    I keep trying (none / 0) (#42)
    by jbindc on Tue Feb 17, 2015 at 07:29:54 AM EST
    To find some of the "top" the women of SNL funny, bit it isn't working.  I WANT to like them.  Kristen Whig is supposed to be a genius, but every skit she's in - not funny and the gag goes on too long.  The Californians?  Stupid.  The songwriters sketch with Fred Armisen - lame.  Even when they showed "the classics" like the Target Lady, they were dumb, dumb, dumb Not sure why her characters always have to act like they are drunk or have neurological tics.

    Still don't get Tina Fey and Amy Poehler as more than slightly amusing.  Poehler seems to be shouting half the time and Fey's jokes are obvious before she gets to the punchline.

    Now, Maya Rudolph was funny (although the Beyonce skit with Martin Short went on to long). And of course, other alums like Molly Shannon, Ana Gasteyer, Rachel Dratch, etc.  were still funny.  

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    I Am With You... (none / 0) (#45)
    by ScottW714 on Tue Feb 17, 2015 at 09:35:59 AM EST
    ...on Fey & Poehler.  And I will never get Kristin Wig, even the movies she is in, she is always the weak link.  And on SNL it seems like half her 'funny' characters were in some way physically/mentally handicapped and that to me is fruit hanging so low, it's rotten.  Fey & Poehler are much better in movies IMO.

    I am avid SNL viewer and I think the current cast of women is the strongest they have had in some time.  Cecily Strong, Nasim Pedra, and Vanessa Bayer are so funny.  But no one can mess will Bill Hader, I hate that he left.  

    My favorite bits are Kim K & Kayne, and Miley Cyrus.

    I think Taran Killam is going to be good and Kenan Thompson is such a good all purpose guy that he seems likely to make it post-SNL.

    I have not watched the anniversary show yet.

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    Kenan Thompson (none / 0) (#47)
    by CST on Tue Feb 17, 2015 at 09:46:01 AM EST
    is a tough one - because he was doing sketch comedy for years on TV long before he was on SNL, and he's amazing at it, but it's also the only thing I can really picture him doing.

    Tina Fey only ever did weekend update and Sarah Palin - which was long after she'd left the show and she only did it because public opinion demanded she do it.  She was a writer though, she never did sketches.  Her first real "acting" gig was the one she gave herself on 30 rock.  That being said, I do like Poehler and Wig, although I agree that Maya Rudolph's Beyonce killed them all.

    I haven't watched enough of the new ones yet to have a solid opinion.

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    Nobody beats Gilda Radner (none / 0) (#50)
    by caseyOR on Tue Feb 17, 2015 at 10:05:53 AM EST
    when it comes to being funny. She was a genius. I can only imagine where her career would have taken her and what laughs she would have given us, had she not been struck down by ovarian cancer at 42.

    And Jane Curtin was no slouch. Her post-SNL TV career has been stellar. Nobody does dead-pan like Jane.

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    Where was Cheri Oteri? Would have (none / 0) (#57)
    by Anne on Tue Feb 17, 2015 at 10:39:02 AM EST
    loved to have seen a reprise of the cheerleaders with Will Ferrell.

    And as an aside, what a good sport Jon Lovitz was for being "memorialized," twice.

    I sort of felt like they took too much time stroking the egos of the former hosts, and killed too much time with some terrible musical performances (except for Miley, who at least can sing), when they could have devoted chunks of time to each decade.

    And the "red carpet" was also time that could have been spent better, but I guess NBC needed to toot its horn a bit in the wake of the Brian Williams fiasco (although one of the most awkward moments was Jim Carrey on the red carpet asking Matt Lauer and Savannah Guthrie, "so, where's Brian Williams?"  I thought Tina Fey looked like she wanted to be somewhere else RIGHT NOW).

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    Looks like snowed in is a sure bet (none / 0) (#22)
    by CaptHowdy on Sun Feb 15, 2015 at 08:31:53 PM EST
    its just starting now supposed to go right through tomorrow afternoon.  As much as a foot.  I don't expect much sympathy from those in the north east.  In fact when it's done with us it's supposed to head north east.

    I'm all stocked and sitting by the fire and my nephew made it to the pot dealer.  Let it snow.

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    I Have 12 Monkeys on the DVR (none / 0) (#46)
    by ScottW714 on Tue Feb 17, 2015 at 09:38:01 AM EST
    I loved the movie, so I was hoping for something close.  I record so few shows that I completely forgot about it, maybe tonight I will give it a go.

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    Tortured romance at the Metropolitan (none / 0) (#11)
    by oculus on Sat Feb 14, 2015 at 04:40:56 PM EST
    Opera HD broadcast today:  Iolanta (father isolates his blind daughter; threatens to kill anyone who disobeys his order noone shall tell her she is blind; happy ending) and Bluebeard's Castle.

    Grey Gardens (none / 0) (#12)
    by CaptHowdy on Sat Feb 14, 2015 at 06:10:32 PM EST
    Before I stumbled upon that film on TCM, (none / 0) (#37)
    by Mr Natural on Mon Feb 16, 2015 at 08:28:07 PM EST
    I'd read about the Jackie O. relative who'd gone cat lady, but I'd pictured the Cat Lady living in a Newport mansion, the eighty plus cats whizzing on marble staircases and rosewood inlays.  I was surprised, and also perversely delighted, by the depth of their descent into squalor, both real and psychic.

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    For Valentine's Day (none / 0) (#13)
    by Zorba on Sat Feb 14, 2015 at 06:29:54 PM EST
    Same song... (none / 0) (#14)
    by desertswine on Sat Feb 14, 2015 at 08:06:31 PM EST
    The classic Miles Davis.

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    It is a sad, yet eye-opening day here in Portland (none / 0) (#15)
    by ZtoA on Sat Feb 14, 2015 at 10:44:28 PM EST
    Kitzhaber has resigned and is now under federal investigation.

    Blueoregon.com has not been covering this until just two days ago (!!). I have not read The Oregonian for years and years, since they tried to take me out (career-wise) and the son of a friend of mine (he was sent to jail) just to name two instances but there were many more. Both very unfairly and rather unethically. So I jumped to the conclusion that the O was just being its usual conservative nasty selves.

    Turns out I might have had a more open mind. Apparently democratic staff and insiders have been jumping ship for several years now. Rather quietly - at least to non insiders.

    From my current understanding (and that is evolving) is that Kitzhaber had two major problems, Cover Oregon (Oregon's ACA implementation) and Cylvia Hayes. I did not follow the ins and outs of the state's working relationship with Oracle - was overwhelmed with other stuff - but my gossip lines regarding Oracle people, tell me that much of the problem was with the state's communication with Oracle. Do I trust my gossip lines (people who know Oracle but who are not being quoted in the media) or the media (who have their own agendas)?  Frankly, I don't know who or what to trust these days.

    In any case Cover Oregon was/is a disaster.

    Cylvia Hayes has gone from (at least in my pov) an attractive, smart, well intentioned progressive force to a less than honest, power hungry, rather paranoid force. Whether it was she or Kitz himself (I've read both) ordered emails destroyed, that was the move that broke many straw's backs.

    Remember (Slado) that the real forces for Kitzhaber's resignation were his fellow democrats in Oregon. Looks like the Oregonian and the WW started to attack Hayes when it looked like the horrid evangelical super-religious republican candidate could not win even with the money he could raise -- even against a governor who had screwed up very badly on Cover Oregon.  Any democrat would have been better than him for the majority of the people in this state.

    Remember Oregon has a large agriculture industry, and natural resources industries, and a strong rural presence, but it is the urban areas that have the populations.... and Intel, and Nike, Mentor Graphics, Adidas, etc. Green start ups - and actually many R&D and start ups are happening here. Remember, Slado, this kind of entrepreneurship is the heart of the 'american spirit' - so, yes, there are false starts, but over all, it is the life force of growth.

    I do think that our new governor, as of next Wednesday, Kate Brown, will be a formidable leader.

    Good post (none / 0) (#66)
    by Slado on Wed Feb 18, 2015 at 08:27:58 AM EST
    Thanks for the info.   Hard to get a feel for what's really going on when you don't live somewhere and it's as complicated as this story is.   Always easier just to accept the storyline that emerges in the media.    

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    And then there is 'the media' (none / 0) (#71)
    by ZtoA on Thu Feb 19, 2015 at 11:09:46 PM EST
    and 'the media'. In Oregon there was a very distinct difference between actual reporting of facts and the editorial board of The Oregonian (Portland) - 6 conservative people. The editorial pages of The Oregonian targeted this democratic gov and really worked to take him out with many very specious statements. The Salem (the capitol) newspaper seriously outed some of The O's editorial 'facts'. The reporter's facts are not in question and that is the main reason Kitz resigned.

    Subtext is big energy interests vs new renewable energy and environmental interests - and all the $$$ that goes with those interests. Most in OR are wanting some balances. Extremes are being opposed by other extremes. Most here want both big and new energy.

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    Today is the 25th anniversary (none / 0) (#20)
    by desertswine on Sun Feb 15, 2015 at 08:08:47 PM EST
    of the iconic photograph taken of the earth by Voyager I at over 6 billion kilometers away that inspired Carl Sagan's "Pale Blue Dot."

    My favorite blue dot pic (none / 0) (#21)
    by CaptHowdy on Sun Feb 15, 2015 at 08:26:33 PM EST
    That Used to be My Desktop Background (5.00 / 1) (#48)
    by ScottW714 on Tue Feb 17, 2015 at 09:46:48 AM EST
    While I was in Yellowstone last year, my brother had brought his spotting scope for wildlife.  We were using it to look at stars one night and this lady cam up with the phone app, Google something or another.  It maps the stars and planets.

    Anyways, we got honed in on Saturn.  OMFG, to see Saturn and its rings so clearly was a highlight for me last year.  I love space and have seen all kinds of images, but to see it, and then to have to move the scope because it was essentially setting was remarkable.

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    That's a fabulous image. (none / 0) (#24)
    by desertswine on Sun Feb 15, 2015 at 11:54:42 PM EST
    OSCAR predictions a week out? (none / 0) (#32)
    by CaptHowdy on Mon Feb 16, 2015 at 07:14:02 PM EST
    i like that Birdman has the buzz but I really hope The Imitation Game gets some love.
    It looks like most people agree that Dawn of the Planet of the Apes should get the EFX award.

    I haven't seen it. (none / 0) (#36)
    by Mr Natural on Mon Feb 16, 2015 at 08:12:00 PM EST
    Hard to forget the original Planet of the Apes and the Ape's completely immobile lips.

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