It was real simple.

Are you telling me that the Right didn't bash Clinton?? And enjoyed it?

Are you telling me the Left isn't bashing Vitter?
And enjoying it??

But there is a point on how you get people, especially young people, to not do things that are destructive, or potentially destructive.

I have too much of the libertarin in me to agree totally with "society," but I am enough of a realist to see that people, especially young people, are greatly influenced by what they see and hear.

I am just not sure that your choice for your relationship should be the typical parameters for a family that a community would advocate for its members because it is much easier to advocate a position where two people are in committed monogamous relationships, imo.

There is no reason for a community to judge your decision, but advocating relationships such as yours  could be difficult for the community to maintain standards of respect and responsibility, though not impossible. I can see sex becoming an issue of power as certain individuals attempt to exploit others using money or social status to gain sexual favors from others. Naturally, this happens in communities that favor traditional family set-ups too, but a standard that places the traditional family over other possibilities has an easier time of limiting this exploitation, in my opinion.

I have some empathy for your views and I certainly favored them in the past, but marriage and children has caused me to rethink some issues. I am not certain that there are not other relationships and parameters than the traditional family for raising healthy children, but I see what my wife and I mean to my children and my commitment to her is as much about raising my children in the best way I know how as it is about what gives me the greatest pleasure at any particular moment in time.