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I bet you're enjoying your encounters as much as he did -- with the people and with the camels, the elephants, the monkeys, and more. And, of course, the food! Parent
P.S. As a native of SE Iowa, I'm not the best candidate for continuously eating really spicy food. But, I'm enjoying the "mild" spice dishes I order. Parent
Btw, spouse is from southern Indiana, but that just made him adventurous, it seems. Still, even he pretty much stayed with "mild" on his plate as well. I so hope you are enjoying it all as much as he did, despite the animal detritus around you.:-) Parent
Mercury retrograde gives rise to personal misunderstandings; flawed, disrupted, or delayed communications, negotiations and trade; glitches and breakdowns with phones, computers, cars, buses, and trains. And all of these problems usually arise because some crucial piece of information, or component, has gone astray or awry.
It is therefore not wise to make important decisions while Mercury is retrograde, since it is very likely that these decisions will be clouded by misinformation, poor communication and careless thinking. Mercury is all about mental clarity and the power of the mind, so when Mercury is retrograde these intellectual characteristics tend to be less acute than usual, as the critical faculties are dimmed. Make sure you pay attention to the small print!
And you're so right, Roberts and the oath is a perfect example. No rhyme or reason for it, stuff just gets jumbled like that. Parent
Revisions which occur during a Mercury retrograde, are a "course correction" and provide a stop gap measure until we can review situations. During this time of revision, change is compounded and confusion is created by our reactions to the ever-changing situations. Thus anything started during this time will ultimately be taken back or even revised further, making for a high-frustration time.
Best to wait until the changes stop before attempting to make things orderly. Therefore, just let the winds of situations blow around you without reacting. Parent
Once Mercury turns direct, take a look at the information that is still around at that time and go about putting everything in order, while maintaining the fine art of flexibility. Parent
I usually do better during the windows when Mercury is in retrograde. Parent
Page last updated at 20:04 GMT, Friday, 23 January 2009 Two missile attacks from suspected US drones have killed 14 people in north-western Pakistan, officials say. At least one missile hit a house in a village near the town of Mirali in North Waziristan, a stronghold of al-Qaeda and Taleban militants. A second suspected drone attack has been reported in South Waziristan, killing five people. Pakistan has long argued that such strikes are counter-productive and are a violation of its sovereignty. These are the first drone attacks since Barack Obama was inaugurated as US president on Tuesday
Two missile attacks from suspected US drones have killed 14 people in north-western Pakistan, officials say.
At least one missile hit a house in a village near the town of Mirali in North Waziristan, a stronghold of al-Qaeda and Taleban militants.
A second suspected drone attack has been reported in South Waziristan, killing five people.
Pakistan has long argued that such strikes are counter-productive and are a violation of its sovereignty.
These are the first drone attacks since Barack Obama was inaugurated as US president on Tuesday
I hope he takes a look in the mirror. Parent
Would you endorse sending a pilotless drone aircraft in to drop bombs in the general vicinity of his/her reported whereabouts? Parent
A recruiting boon for AQ in Pakistan I'm sure...nice job Obama! Parent
He wasted no time in getting his hands bloodied, innit? Parent
No one else has even attempted to walk that path. Parent
The bloods on our hands too...we pay for it and we vote for it. And we reap what we sow. Parent
Seems to me like it could be pretty lucrative.
Glad to hear you're enjoying India. Parent
But you need to focus on love AND employment issues. Parent
She had gotten past all that stuff and was involved with feminism and politics. After a few months she decided to give the arranged marriage a go. The guy was older chubby and bald. Not remotely attractive to her. With in two weeks of the marriage she was hopelessly in love.
A lot of thought goes into these arrangements. THey have a high success rate. Parent
Two percent divorce rate - but a huge percentage of unhappy marriages and marriages where the wives lead a miserable existence. Parent
My point is more about being surprised that arranged marriages have something to be said for them. I think there are many benefits and am open to the notion that it may produce a larger percentage long term "happy marriages" than not, due to well researched compatibility data. Parent
As for compatibility checks - what's checked is the suitor's family and astrology. Most times, financial well-being. Oh and if you're a man looking for a potential wife - how fair she is. Though the richer girls can be picky about their future husband's looks too. Other than that no one really cares whether the couple themselves are compatible. It's changing these days where the more modern couples insist on having a few dates before getting hitched, but we're talking about the urban areas.
When looking at the benefits of an arranged marriage, you need to look at the social fabric and the different role of family in India - and not just at the marriage of the couple alone. Marriage in India is still largely the girl leaving her family and becoming part of her husband's. (I still hear my mother-in-law say that and it's a weird concept to me). So compatibility is really about how well is the man's family going to treat their daughter - as she's probably going to be spending most of her time with his family than she is with him. Is that kind of "researched compatibility data" going to work in the American context - I don't think so. Parent
Shared values, are key.
Also it seems to me that the idea of marriage here in the US is overtly about love while covertly about a business arrangement. Breeding, social standing, business relationships between two powerful families.. etc. At least in India the business part is the point.
My grandparents all had arranged marriages. It was never about love but about socially accepted duty on both parts. Everyone knew how to behave and divorce was not an option.
A friend of mine's uncle also came from an arranged marriage. He was entirely devoted to his wife to the extent that the family was worried about what would happen to him when his wife died. Both were in their upper 80's and she was quite ill.
Well she died and the guy disappeared. At first the family thought he was walking the streets of Manhattan in utter despair and would soon return home. After a couple of days the family called the police and put out an APB. The family was quite worried because he only spoke Russian, Yiddish and Hebrew and was very old.
Nothing, no sign of him for three weeks. All of a sudden he appeared. When his wife died he went to the bank and withdrew several thousand dollars. He bought tickets to Israel, Russia, Paris Rome, and Berlin, places he had, unbeknownst to the rest of the family, always wanted to visit.
It turned out that he despised his wife and was quite pleased that she passed away. But since he did not see marriage as a love relationship but rather a duty, he did his job and no one knew that it was an onus. Being married was a job for him that he did well. He opened up in his last few years and was quite happy to be done with marriage. Parent
That's what marriage means to a lot of Indian couples. Now if you think that's what makes a good marriage - well yes, an arranged marriage may be the option. But don't be fooled that because one's good at one's job, one is happy with it or that the arranged marriage tradition, at least as it is currently practiced, necessarily finds the best fit for the job.
And then marriage doesn't mean a job to a large section of the North American culture. Parent
And then marriage doesn't mean a job to a large section of the North American culture.
But clearly that is where the idea comes from. It is all about breeding, contracts, and business. Seems to me that keeping that upfront is not a bad idea.
I never understood why anyone would want to have a contract with the state for matters only involving love. Seems like that is something you do on the side. Parent
Federal agents on Thursday raided the offices of a Pennsylvania government contractor with close ties to Rep. John P. Murtha, chairman of the powerful Defense panel on the House Appropriations Committee. Agents from the FBI, IRS and Defense Criminal Investigative Service searched the offices of Kuchera Industries and Kuchera Defense Systems in three different locations in Pennsylvania. Over the last several years, Murtha, a Democrat from Pennsylvania, has helped steer more than $100 million in contracts to Kuchera, a government contractor founded in 1985 by Bill Kuchera. The company and its employees have donated more than $65,000 dollars to Murtha's reelection campaign and leadership political action committee, according to Federal Election Commission records.
Agents from the FBI, IRS and Defense Criminal Investigative Service searched the offices of Kuchera Industries and Kuchera Defense Systems in three different locations in Pennsylvania.
Over the last several years, Murtha, a Democrat from Pennsylvania, has helped steer more than $100 million in contracts to Kuchera, a government contractor founded in 1985 by Bill Kuchera. The company and its employees have donated more than $65,000 dollars to Murtha's reelection campaign and leadership political action committee, according to Federal Election Commission records.
KABUL, Afghanistan - The American coalition in Afghanistan opened a joint U.S.-Afghan investigation Saturday into an overnight raid that American commanders say killed 15 armed militants but that two Afghan officials say killed 11 civilians.
Personally, the horror of the Bush years was his indifference to the slaughter of innocent civilians - especially children. I remember in the opening days of the "shock and awe" bombing of Baghdad, we maimed a child and killed his mother, father and siblings. I hated living with this every day.
The fact that this horrible stupidity in continuing under the leadership of Mr. Obama negates every hope I had for an end to the Bush ethic.
It usually takes me a week or so before I find that I can't bear to look at or listen to a new commander-in-chief. It only took two days in the case of Obama.
That is 730(-X) days of continued violence to look forward to.
Them's the facts. Bush started this mess. Obama can stop it, but it will take time. Parent
The US cannot 'defeat' the Taliban on THEIR home ground. Increased US military involvement there will inevitably lead more USer casualties, which will lead to atrocities which will poison the local public against US far more deeply than any efforts at nation building (so-called) can repair.
Did I say "it's inevitable?" Cuz it's inevitable! Parent
I don't have much hope for getting rid of the tribal warlords or the Taliban in the foreseeable future. Neither of them have much reason to want a strong central government to encroach on their remote territories, even if it means better roads and more schools. It will be a slow, tedious struggle to convince the petty tyrants to give up power for more resources and better access to the outside world. I don't think that the Taliban should be allowed to take over the entire country either.
Pakistan needs to show some determination to deal with its own insurgents. I think our "allies" owe us more than empty promises and demands for more money to fight terrorists. Russia is rightfully the local superpower and should be expected to do some of the heavy lifting - economically and militarily.
The United States should be an international Leader, not Global Policeman. Parent
The fact that this horrible stupidity in continuing under the leadership of Mr. Obama negates every hope I had for an end to the Bush ethic. It usually takes me a week or so before I find that I can't bear to look at or listen to a new commander-in-chief. It only took two days in the case of Obama.
Sounds dishonest to me, considering that you have had only contempt for Obama since he took on Hillary in the primary.
As horrible as this is it should come as no surprise either. Both leading Dem candidates campaigned on the promise that they were going to continue bombing in the border region between Afghanistan and Pakistan.
And if you actually believe that the Bush ethic has continued or is continuing you need medication. Parent
But I guess ODS has a flock, and you are the muscle. lol Parent
Hmm.. you're the moderator now?
Looks like you are the one with a moderator fantasies:
Stop insulting people, stop calling them liars, and MOVE ON.
If you want a kaffe klatch, aka fan club, you are at the wrong site.
I am told that there are in fact places where you can act out your ODS unhampered. Here you are likely to get your BS ravings checked. Parent
Seems you are the one needing to calm down. Parent
But the reality of it is just sickening.
One day you celebrate seeing the Bushes flying off into obscurity, and the next you see one of his most obnoxious and horrifying practices being continued as if he were still there. Parent
Reading through the repetitive comments the past two days about Pakistan I was thinking IODIIMBW (If Obama Does It It Must Be Wrong). Parent
Disgraced evangelical leader Ted Haggard's former church disclosed Friday that the gay s#x scandal that caused his downfall extends to a young male church volunteer who reported having a s#xual relationship with Haggard -- a revelation that comes as Haggard tries to repair his public image. Advertisement
Brady Boyd, who succeeded Haggard as senior pastor of the 10,000-member New Life Church in Colorado Springs, told The Associated Press that the man came forward to church officials in late 2006 shortly after a Denver male prostitute claimed to have had a three-year cash-for-s#x relationship with Haggard.
Gay pundits. Gay advice columnists. They can keep on pontificating just dump the religion!
I wouldn't be a consumer, but at least they'd annoy me less. Parent
The hunt is on for the photographic source of Shepard Fairey's iconic Obama image, and, as Mike Madison says, now "the fair use fun can begin." [snip] "This would be a tough fair use argument to win because the 'transformation' is purely in the look of the work, not the purpose. There's no commentary going on. Also, a large and significant portion the work is used, and campaign posters are certainly a reasonable and traditional market for licensed uses of photos, so there'd be a strong argument for market harm even if there's been no measurable lost sales by the photographer.
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"This would be a tough fair use argument to win because the 'transformation' is purely in the look of the work, not the purpose. There's no commentary going on. Also, a large and significant portion the work is used, and campaign posters are certainly a reasonable and traditional market for licensed uses of photos, so there'd be a strong argument for market harm even if there's been no measurable lost sales by the photographer.
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I think Fairey will prevail, although I would take some delight in seeing him lose.
Mannie Garcia is the author of the appropriated Fariey poster.
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Ball is in Garcia's court. Parent
Brady Boyd, who succeeded Haggard as senior pastor of the 10,000-member New Life Church in Colorado Springs, told The Associated Press that the man came forward to church officials in late 2006 shortly after a Denver male prostitute claimed to have had a three-year cash-for-sex relationship with Haggard. Boyd said an "overwhelming pool of evidence" pointed to an "inappropriate, consensual sexual relationship" that "went on for a long period of time ... it wasn't a one-time act." Boyd said the man was in his early 20s at the time. He said he was certain the man was of legal age when it began.
Boyd said an "overwhelming pool of evidence" pointed to an "inappropriate, consensual sexual relationship" that "went on for a long period of time ... it wasn't a one-time act." Boyd said the man was in his early 20s at the time. He said he was certain the man was of legal age when it began.
Roger Ailes
Soon to be an HBO $pecial.
I wish he would have rode out his 15 minutes of "fame" and left it at that. But, he seems to enjoy the limelight a bit too much.
The timing of this new revelation is a bit interesting with the big upcoming HBO thing. I have to wonder if it wasn't deliberate. New Life Church is very keen on protecting their multi-million dollar image.
You may recall, this is not the only reason they've been in the news of late. Parent