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Today, 3 1/2 hrs., including 2 intermissions, of "August: Osage County," by Tracy Letts. Won a Tony so it must be a good play, right? His "Superior Donuts" was very engaging, but that was a comedy. This one: disfunctional family.
The kindle is easy to take everywhere if you just want reading. But all around, it's the iPad. The iPad magazine downloads, New Yorker, Economist are incredible. I now read them more than the print editions.
Are we ready to rumble for the next election? Parent
Re next election, reluctant to become so emotionally involved again. FISA, Gitmo, etc. Parent
Basically, think of it like kitchen appliances: The hand held mixer, vs. the Kitchen-Aid. I need both. So there I said it. iPad is great for travel with external keyboard if you are not planning to write extensive documents. It's not decadent to own both, they are different tools.
iPad I can stream Netflix and Xfinity. Kindle, I can read in the garden, carry in purse and have all my books with me. The navigation on the kindle sort of sucks compared to iPad.
iPad, I can stream radio, have my pictures...etc. I watched the 3rd season of the wire on flight to Europe. That was delicious.
Frankly, get both. Or maybe we should buy the Nook as well, they tell me us "girls" like the Nook. Parent
I do think the Kindle print is a little easier to read, I won't argue that. So if all you want is a dedicated eReader, it is the way to go. I just like all the other things I can do on the iPad enough to sacrifice a smidgeon of readability. Parent
Everybody have a great holiday!
He's a tough little kid, and you, MT, are "one tough mother". (props to Columbia Sportswear for the use of their advertising tag line.) Parent
The one time it wasn't separate for me was when that surgeon wanted to amputate Josh's feet and my husband was in Afghanistan. That time the two were linked. But TalkLeft did what decent Americans do, and this was probably a very good place to discuss it a little because people who comment here tend to be thinkers and problem solvers and they steered the whole conversation in that direction until I could process all that emotion and the surgeon's desires verses what we would ourselves choose to do because I was pretty distressed right then.
How things break down for me though about serving two separate Presidents and the Iraq debacle verses what is now labeled Obama's war is separate from the health issues that we deal with with Joshua.
The military has been more than generous too. My husband gives his job his all, they have ponied up with promotions and because he gives it his all every commander since all this started has gone out of their way to make sure that he can contact me when we are going through difficult things. If it means allowing the SAT phone in Iraq to be used for a few personal calls, sending him home two weeks early, or getting him some clearance to skype home during a surgery, they've done it. They have never let me down, not once so far. Private sector America should get to experience such things, but sadly we have propagandized what they do for us to be of less worth unless they are the wealthy 1%, and they are not as worthy.
I see, feel, and experience that discrepancy keenly too. It was always a toss up for me as a single working mom. I have always given my work my all, but I had a 50/50 shot at whether or not I got a boss that respected that or thought that their mission in life was to beat everything out of me they could get while paying as little as possible. Parent
One thing that I do not understand though is why if you have been a medic you are qualified to be an EMT, and if you have been driving trucks for the military why aren't you immediately qualified to drive trucks in the U.S? Parent
I wonder if Vets are getting proper coaching for job interviews? Parent
The first Iraq tour, there were lots of shootdowns and all the pilots knew they were very much at risk. So there was that constant anxiety, and the problem that it posed didn't really show up for a few months back at home. He was humming along with this constant anxiety though and his current environment did not match what he was putting out. He seemed to have a short out once then.
That did eventually shut down though. The thing that took longer to leave was waking up like a lunatic :) He never did anything crazy, he just woke up suddenly very easily and looked like he was about to run 5 miles right out of the bed. But in combat when he flew, if they were waking him up something bad had happened, some sort of life or death emergency. Not sleeping soundly invites some kinds of depression.
He transitions a lot easier now, now that he did it once. And he was 30 years old when all this started so his frontal lobe was fully formed, not as easy to scar. Given all that though, even his coming home is noticeable. When he first gets home I keep things quiet for the first month too. We don't go to crowded noisy places then and I plan for calm so that he can reacclimate. Parent
Blessings. Parent
So we go one step at a time and we check all the emotional gas tanks. We plan great things in the middle of it all. Like right now there is a 3D DSI system, one of those game systems you can take in your pocket. And we have the plan that that is when Joshua will get one, he knows that too so there is something really cool to see in that same future. Everything we do when we are going through these things we try to weight down with things that fill us up some too so that it never seems like we are running on empty if we can help it. Still though, someone will throw you something out of left field you weren't ready for like what happened with the new foot doctor and send you into a tailspin because whether I'm willing to admit it when we are in the middle of that stuff, my position is a pretty precarious one.
You know that foot surgeon won't talk to us directly face to face either now. He sends his assistant in when Josh is having a check up. The guy who makes Josh's braces thought it was a very bad call to make too because he also makes prosthetics for amputees and many times those are very uncomfortable and can even be painful. That isn't an exact science yet either he says, but this surgeon has helped solidify a new form of foot amputation that he wanted Josh to have and he is top in that field. But according the guy who makes the prosthetics that amputation still has certain problems that haven't been fully overcome yet in the prosthetic department. It is only better than what they had before. That surgeon sure is mad at me though. Parent
In reducing payment rates the appeals court said California violated the Medicaid law and threatened access to much-needed medical care for the poor (indeed, rates in some parts of the country are so low that Medicaid recipients have difficulty finding doctors--and the law states that rates must be sufficient to enlist enough providers).
As a part of California's appeal to the Supreme Court the Obama administration held that Medicaid recipients and provides cannot sue state officials even if such cuts compromise access for poor people. Consumer advocates were dismayed by this position. Prof. T. Jost at Washington and Lee found it appalling that a Democratic administration would assert in a Supreme Court brief that business can challenge state regulation under the supremacy clause, but poor Medicaid recipients cannot. Stacy Leyton, representing Medicaid recipients claimed Courts have been open to litigants who are injured by state laws that are pre-empted by federal laws.
The administration's position is that the Medicaid law promising equal access is "broad and nonspecific" and, besides, federal health officials are better equipped than judges to balance this goal with other policy objectives, like holding down costs. Now what about those "friends", especially for the expected addition of 16 million people to Medicaid as a part of the Affordable Heath Care Act. (based on NYT article by Robert Pear, Sunday, May 29, 20ll)
Party's over though...and just in time, I feel like a salty lime inside post-48 hour margarita binge. Plus I smashed my hoof into a big rock going all-out playing Kadima, now that I'm no longer drunk the sh*t hurts, hope it ain't busted.
Today we play carpenter at the crib, rebuilding the back deck for the landlady for a rent discount...sun god help us. So if anyone ever visits, don't lean on the railing...we're winging it hardcore. You've been warned:)
Just need another pot of coffee, a greasy swine breakfast, and herbal hangover meds and I'll be ready to rock the circular saw.
Sh&t, I just heard thunder, please don't rain...
Rain it is...could be a sign I'm in no shape to operate power tools:) Parent
"Over, Finished, Done", as my old man used to say:) Parent