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Can A "Joke" Be "Denigrating?”

It seems hard to believe that the question needs to be answered, but apparently so. Via James Joyner, Ed Morrissey asks:

[H]ave we become such pantywaists that we can’t tell the difference between a joke and “denigration”, “disempowerment”, and “humiliation”?

"Pantywaists" is defined as "[a] boy or man who is considered weak or effeminate." A sexist critique of sexist behavior - or, if you will, a sexist "joke." Well done Mr. Morrissey. Your "he man" status is now assured.

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    For those wondering (5.00 / 12) (#1)
    by Big Tent Democrat on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 03:39:32 PM EST
    yes, a joke can be denigrating. It can also be hurtful, mean, humiliating, etc.

    It can be offensive, wrong, racist, sexist, anti-religious, etc.

    And it can be (5.00 / 16) (#3)
    by TeresaInSnow2 on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 03:48:56 PM EST
    in very. bad. taste.  

    It CAN get you fired from your job.

    And it can be something we don't expect and shouldn't allow from people who advise the President of the United States.  And it can be something the president shouldn't allow.

    Yes. it. can.

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    Should get him fired, but (5.00 / 2) (#16)
    by oculus on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:11:50 PM EST
    won't.  Saved by see-the-Senate seat scandal.

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    He should be fired ... (5.00 / 4) (#25)
    by Robot Porter on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:20:43 PM EST
    plain and simple.

    But this begs a question.  What does he do as speechwriter?  Obama always gives the same speech.


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    Someday I would like to see (none / 0) (#26)
    by Steve M on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:22:23 PM EST
    a non-binary world where there are more choices than "condoning" and "firing."

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    This seems like a strawman (5.00 / 4) (#32)
    by dk on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:28:14 PM EST
    to me, Steve.  I bet that most people (I include myself in this group) who think he should be fired understand that there are many other choices other than condoning or firing.  

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    Not a strawman (5.00 / 1) (#78)
    by Steve M on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 05:32:25 PM EST
    As an employer, I certainly understand that options exist in between firing and condoning.  I exercise them myself on a regular basis.

    But in the public sphere, it just seems to me that such intermediate options don't really exist in the real world.  When people are upset, for the most part, either they get a scalp or they are left feeling like the person got away with it.

    I am in complete agreement with BTD on this issue, but I'm not as confident as you that the intermediate remedy suffices for everyone.

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    I don't know what you're talking about ... (5.00 / 4) (#81)
    by Robot Porter on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 05:40:48 PM EST
    in "the real world" people are fired for a lot less reason than this.  Or no reason at all.

    This idea that somehow "public figures" are treated harder than the rest of us is yet another straw man.

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    No (none / 0) (#88)
    by Steve M on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 05:50:28 PM EST
    it's my own personal experience, which may differ from yours.  I don't live in a world where people are routinely fired for no reason at all; maybe you do.  Not everything you disagree with is a strawman.

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    SteveM - "No reason"? (5.00 / 1) (#89)
    by lilburro on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 05:54:46 PM EST
    I think that misstates the situation.

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    Not at all (5.00 / 1) (#93)
    by Steve M on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 06:05:10 PM EST
    You should read my comment in the context of the comment I was responding to.

    I certainly don't think that if Favreau were fired it would be for "no reason."  I think it would be an entirely defensible decision.  So let me leave no doubt on that point.

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    Steve M ... (5.00 / 2) (#99)
    by Robot Porter on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 06:11:51 PM EST
    I got your point.  I just don't happen to agree with it.

    I think more often people in the public eye are not held accountable for their actions.  And those who continue to get upset about it are told to STFU.

    When I voted for a candidate who condoned sexist attacks, I knew things like this would be the outcome.

    Favreau won't be fired, and will become a multi-millionaire due to his connections with Obama.

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    My personal belief (5.00 / 1) (#105)
    by Steve M on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 06:20:12 PM EST
    is that because most people feel like public figures can get away with far more than they can, that is part of the reason why they are so eager to insist on an actual scalp whenever possible.  Because otherwise, if there's an apology and the public figure just gets to go on being successful, it seems like nothing really happened.

    So I don't necessarily disagree with you about whether public figures get away with more.  In actuality, I think it's that the standards are completely warped for people in the public eye, such that their firing offenses can be our trivia and vice versa.  They're held to different standards and I'm not sure that they are uniformly tougher or easier.

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    hey Steve - (5.00 / 1) (#161)
    by lilburro on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 09:20:31 PM EST
    sorry.  I get your point now.  Sometimes parenting is :(...

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    If you were the President, would (none / 0) (#162)
    by oculus on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 09:22:15 PM EST
    you keep him in the position of your speechwriter-in-chief?

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    Steve M ... (5.00 / 1) (#126)
    by Robot Porter on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 06:46:23 PM EST
    I work in the Entertainment industry so my view on firings may be warped.

    In my business caprice is the main reason for firings.  And actual firing moment never occurs.

    There's a great moment in the book MONSTER by John Gregory Dunne when he has to explain to his wife Joan Didion that they were just fired from a screenwriting job.

    Further, as you know, in most instances private entities need not give or have any reason for firing an employee.

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    Ah, but now you are writing (5.00 / 3) (#82)
    by dk on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 05:41:00 PM EST
    something different.  Above, you express a desire to live in a world where there are more choices between condoning and firing.

    We live in such a world now.  My point is that we all understand that there are more choices than condoning or firing.  It just so happens that many here have considered all of these choices, and have come to the conclusion that that the choice of firing is the appropriate one.

    You may (and obviously do) disagree with that choice, but suggesting that many "in this world" do not understand that other choices exist can come off as patronizing.

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    Well (5.00 / 1) (#87)
    by Steve M on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 05:48:41 PM EST
    rather than get into a pointless discussion about whether I'm not giving all of you enough credit or whatever, let's make it more constructive.  Explain to me why you disagree with BTD that a public reprimand and apology would be sufficient.

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    I'm willing to stop the (5.00 / 2) (#97)
    by dk on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 06:11:32 PM EST
    discussion you started by creating the strawman.  You're welcome.

    As to why I disagree with you and BTD on the merits, I guess my main argument boils down to the seriousness of the offense.  

    Much has been written over the last week, and in this short amount of time I don't think I could say it much better than others already have.  Personally, I think that Dee Dee Myers and Anglachel have made some of the most cogent arguments; Dee Dee for why it's ok that White House employees are, and should be, held to a very high standard when it comes to the issue of avoiding overt displays of sexism, and Anglachel as to very real dangers of letting the world believe that Obama won't take the strongest actions possible to uphold the dignity of his Secretary of State.  

    Would a very public reprimand be as appropriate as firing him?  Not in my opinion.  However, I will concede that it would be better than nothing, which is what the administration has deemed fit to serve up.

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    Heh (none / 0) (#107)
    by Steve M on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 06:21:04 PM EST
    Thanks for "stopping" that discussion.  You're a pleasant person to interact with.

    Parent
    Hey, I was willing to (none / 0) (#113)
    by dk on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 06:23:23 PM EST
    get over your initial patronizing comment and have a constructive discussion on the merits.  I wrote a rather lengthy comment giving my reasons for why I think Favreau should be fired.  Do you not want to continue THAT discussion?  

    Fine with me, but I tried.

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    I'd agree ... (none / 0) (#33)
    by Robot Porter on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:29:36 PM EST
    a clear straw man argument.

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    That world exists today (5.00 / 1) (#35)
    by Big Tent Democrat on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:30:18 PM EST
    I do not believe he should be fired for this.

    I have expressed my views on the subject and on the views expressed by others.

    In this case, I commented upon Ed Morrissey's views.

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    I haven't seen you express (5.00 / 1) (#38)
    by dk on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:35:30 PM EST
    your views on what Favreau or Obama should do, but perhaps I missed it.

    I'm sure everyone commenting here could come up with several intermediate actions between condoning and firing.  It just so happens that many think the more harsh alternative, firing, is appropriate.

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    And they are welcome to express their opinion (none / 0) (#42)
    by Big Tent Democrat on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:39:09 PM EST
    I expressed mine. I did so to refute Steve M's erroneous view that this is a situation where there are only two alternatives.

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    So have you stated what (none / 0) (#47)
    by dk on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:44:29 PM EST
    your opinion is on what the appropriate action, if any, either on Favreau's or Obama's part, would be? I have looked back at your posts on the subject and didn't see anything to reflect your opinion on that aspect of all of this.

    Parent
    A public reprimand and apology (5.00 / 1) (#52)
    by Big Tent Democrat on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:49:33 PM EST
    Not a press release as such.

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    And what does it say that (5.00 / 5) (#57)
    by dk on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:54:57 PM EST
    they don't seem even to be bothering to do that?

    Parent
    I thinkl Favreau is entitled to (5.00 / 4) (#58)
    by oculus on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:55:06 PM EST
    the protections of any federal employee, i.e., this is a confidential personnel matter.  But, even so, President-elect Obama or his spokesperson (not Favreau) should state publicly, and soon, the Obama administration will have zero tolerance for sexual harassment.  

    Of course, the office where I worked did statee "zero tolerance" policy, and all were required to annually attend training.  Was it zero tolerance though. No.  

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    Is Favreau already a federal (5.00 / 1) (#64)
    by dk on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:58:38 PM EST
    employee?  Obama isn't President yet, and assuming Favreau would become a federal employee by virtue of a position as speechwriter to the President (I don't even know if that position is treated as a federal employee, but let's assume it is), that wouldn't happen until after the inauguration, right?

    I would imagine that up until now, Favreau was paid by the Obama campaign, right?

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    I would guess that the (5.00 / 3) (#157)
    by ding7777 on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 09:11:33 PM EST
    director of speech writing serves  "at the pleasure of the President".

    Parent
    So just a "boys will be boys" ... (none / 0) (#65)
    by Robot Porter on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 05:02:17 PM EST
    rap on the knuckles.

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    Oh dear, BTD what do you think a snot-nosed (5.00 / 3) (#39)
    by FoxholeAtheist on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:36:29 PM EST
    speech-writer would need to do to get fired in an Obama administration?

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    Live boy, dead women (5.00 / 2) (#71)
    by Fabian on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 05:16:41 PM EST
    or a racist joke?

    (I believe the original phrasing was "dead girl".)

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    The word is "reprimand"... (5.00 / 3) (#37)
    by FoxholeAtheist on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:33:31 PM EST
    In my experience, when a boss doesn't "condone" employee misconduct, s/he reprimands the employee, privately and/or publicly. However, if the boss doesn't "fire" the employee, it sends the message that the boss believes the misconduct didn't rise to a level that warranted firing.

    The taxpaying electorate is paying Mr. Favreau's salary and Obama's salary for that matter. They both work for us and we should have some say in this matter.

    Imo, Fav-a-reau has got to go.

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    I think I would feel better (5.00 / 8) (#54)
    by TeresaInSnow2 on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:51:20 PM EST
    if they'd done anything at all about the situation.

    The reality is they made a joke of it.

    And I felt I was in the 50's again, where little wimmin folk were supposed to just get the joke.

    We aren't talking about a frat boy low level staffer here.  If we were, I'd be satisfied knowing he'd disappear into the sunset.

    As long as the little jerk is on staff, every time I hear anything Obama says, I'll think, "yes, we can, but he didn't."

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    To me the fact that ... (5.00 / 4) (#74)
    by Robot Porter on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 05:27:36 PM EST
    there's a photo demonstrates these attitudes are condoned in Obama circles.

    The fact that there was no official reaction makes that doubly clear.

    That's my problem with this whole thing.

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    Yes (2.00 / 5) (#84)
    by squeaky on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 05:47:50 PM EST
    It is a vast Obamabot plot to subjugate all women, and then all whites.

    I would drink bottled water from now on, if I were you.

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    There needs to be a (5.00 / 4) (#90)
    by tree on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 06:00:21 PM EST
    new rule for the Obama era, similar to Godwin's rule, that as an online discussion of sexism grows longer, the probability that someone will make an idiotic comment accusing other posters of being racists approaches one.

    This discussion has just reached that point. Thanks, squeaky!

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    I think we it's a form of blog bingo ... (5.00 / 3) (#139)
    by Robot Porter on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 08:17:47 PM EST
    conspiracy theorist, puma, racist ... bingo!

    Oddly, these people never come around when real civil rights issues are at stake.

    Parent

    Well, there's Obamawin's Law (5.00 / 5) (#163)
    by lambert on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 09:25:06 PM EST
    But unfortunately that's off point. The definition is:

    No lessons shall be learned (or even considered) from the mistreatment Hillary Clinton received and/or the uncritical treatment Barack Obama received during the 2008 primaries.

    Close, but perhaps not a winner.

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    BS (none / 0) (#92)
    by squeaky on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 06:03:58 PM EST
    there's a photo demonstrates these attitudes are condoned in Obama circles.

    But obviously, you are in on the conspiracy theory. I bet you "knew it" all the time..


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    Its probably best if (5.00 / 2) (#95)
    by tree on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 06:07:04 PM EST
    you don't try to read other posters' minds. You aren't any good at it.

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    No Reading Minds (none / 0) (#96)
    by squeaky on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 06:09:33 PM EST
    Just plain text. Evidentially Robot Porter thinks that Obama's circles are into promoting sexist behavior. His or her wacky opinion is clear as day.

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    But what if the comment is accurate? (none / 0) (#98)
    by sarcastic unnamed one on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 06:11:35 PM EST
    Like if it's in response to something like this?:
    To me the fact that there's a photo demonstrates these attitudes are condoned in Obama circles.


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    You think that a proper (5.00 / 3) (#103)
    by tree on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 06:17:31 PM EST
    response to that is to accuse someone of racist attitudes ala facetiously saying that "Obamabots" have a plan to "subjugate whites"? Race baiting is OK as long as you disagree with what a poster said?

    Sad.  

    Parent

    Stop It (none / 0) (#117)
    by squeaky on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 06:27:16 PM EST
    Not sure why you are pretending that my response to Robot Porter's statement was any less absurd than his or hers.

    Except if you are rabid enough to believe that there is a conspiracy in Obama circles to denigrate women.

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    One poster seriously says (none / 0) (#120)
    by sarcastic unnamed one on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 06:30:58 PM EST
    sexist behavior toward the potus-elect's SoS is condoned by the potus-elect, and another makes a facetious statment pointing out the absurdity of the first statement.

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    Accurate (none / 0) (#109)
    by squeaky on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 06:21:33 PM EST
    Hardly possible. It is an attempt at stereotyping. Obviously BTD a long time Obama supporter is not reflective of that attitude.

    Do you think Michele Obama is a sexist pig too?

    It is an absurd statement that is basically PUMA trolling.

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    "Accurate" was a poor choice of wording (none / 0) (#121)
    by sarcastic unnamed one on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 06:32:26 PM EST
    on my part. See my commnet #120.

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    I think if a strong public reprimand (5.00 / 4) (#60)
    by ruffian on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:55:32 PM EST
    had been issued immediately, I would not have leapt to 'fire him!' as the remedy. Sometimes the strategy of waiting to see the public reaction before deciding on a course of action just gives the public reason and time to get even madder. I understand why Hillary wanted to be a 'good sport' about it - many of us have been there - but Obama himself should have taken it more seriously on her behalf.

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    I suppose Obama or his (none / 0) (#34)
    by oculus on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:29:39 PM EST
    designee could counsel and warn Mr. Favreau.  But, if I were Obama, I would think twice about relying on Mr. Favreau to write my speeches, and probably accompany me as I travel as President.

    Parent
    What Makes You Think That... (none / 0) (#86)
    by santarita on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 05:48:05 PM EST
    his apology to Sen. Clinton was not part of an intermediate step between condoning and firing.  It is possible that  he was privately reprimanded and ordered to make the apology.

    Parent
    Did I miss the apology? (5.00 / 5) (#164)
    by lambert on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 09:27:44 PM EST
    Do we have a link to that? I thought that the "reviewing his application to the State Department" was a joke, not an apology.

    In any case, what does a private apology matter? What if it were a non-apology apology? "I'm sorry if some saw my groping your image as offensive...."

    Parent

    According to CNN, Wash. Post and (none / 0) (#170)
    by santarita on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 09:47:15 PM EST
    The Guardian - he reportedly offered an apology.  

    Parent
    Well, I haven't read the apology (5.00 / 2) (#184)
    by lambert on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 11:12:45 PM EST
    and it all seems rather second hand to me.

    Parent
    Here, if you can call it that: (none / 0) (#193)
    by oculus on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 11:56:07 PM EST
    And don't forget (none / 0) (#29)
    by nycstray on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:23:12 PM EST
    Obama has his 'writing partner' D. Patrick. . . .

    Parent
    Same speech (none / 0) (#134)
    by spiceweazel on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 07:25:57 PM EST
    Heh. And I thought I was the only one who finds him repetitious.

    Parent
    He was never (5.00 / 1) (#180)
    by zyx on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 10:35:59 PM EST
    going to get in more than a moment's teeny bit of trouble for it anyway, if you'd call it that.

    Don't kid yourself.

    I myself think he should have been fired. Not anything less.

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    it sure can.. (5.00 / 5) (#49)
    by jedimom on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:46:25 PM EST
    yes the women of Morgan Stanley, I remember, didn't find it quite as funny as some of the guys did, when breast cakes were brought in for a female colleagues birthday.

    I believe the EEOC lawsuit and subsequent verdict against them in court helped out the kaibosh on that behavior.

    Some people don't learn without paying a price...

    Parent

    Anglachel says it best.... (5.00 / 4) (#137)
    by Shainzona on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 07:39:55 PM EST
    "It is about defending the dignity and authority of a cabinet officer, which is identical with defending the dignity and authority of the administration as such. It is about Obama's ability to maintain order and enforce discipline. In this case, the president is responsible for defending the nation, as represented by a member of his cabinet, from violation and degredation. That the acts were perfomed on a cardboard cutout should increase awareness of the symbolic import of an assault upon a representation of the country. People have mentioned (and even Photoshopped in) faces of other women, which misses the point. The correct reshuffling of that image would be to have foreign nationals in the place of the staffers. What is done to the Secretary of State is done to the nation.

    Parent
    With all due respect... (none / 0) (#178)
    by kdog on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 10:24:03 PM EST
    I'm with Dostoevsky on this one....

    A society should be judged not by how it treats its outstanding citizens but by how it treats its criminals.


    Parent
    I guess the whole Imus thing was.... (5.00 / 4) (#7)
    by Maria Garcia on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 03:54:09 PM EST
    ...a lifetime ago for these people. I knew they were young, but not that young.

    Parent
    So....what's the joke (5.00 / 2) (#77)
    by oldpro on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 05:30:56 PM EST
    in this particular case?

    Would it have been a joke if the cardboard cutout were of Michelle Obama?

    Parent

    Of course! (5.00 / 1) (#185)
    by lambert on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 11:13:30 PM EST
    Hey, come on, where's your sense of humor?

    Parent
    {head meets desk} (5.00 / 6) (#2)
    by nycstray on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 03:44:25 PM EST


    Oh so that's what sexism is. (5.00 / 8) (#4)
    by lilburro on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 03:49:37 PM EST
    Thanks Ed!

    "The latter doesn't humiliate anything but the inanimate object..."

    Well call me an inanimate object for being upset then!  For being reminded that my gender's body parts are an object of "fun" - at a moment's notice! - for guys!  And for some reason not liking that.

    Also I love how people make arguments defending sexist actions by pretending Bill's administration was 8 years of nonstop sexism.  

    I think people just are not paying attention to the photograph.  How do you get a picture like that?  "You get on one side and kiss her, I'll get on the other side and grope her!  Come on Obama fan and Obama staff member, let's molest Hillary Clinton!"

    "Real Men" (5.00 / 2) (#5)
    by squeaky on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 03:52:00 PM EST
    Don't need to think, evidentially. I guess that the pantywaists take up the slack in the brains dept, otherwise natural selection would have eliminated males long ago.

    I can tell you what is not a joke (5.00 / 5) (#13)
    by Amiss on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:06:55 PM EST
    and that is the way the leaders of other countries view this. If Obama does not demand respect of his cabinet members or staff of each others, the leaders of other countries will not view HIM with respect.

    But this isn't a campaign and we are talking serious, high-stakes politics. Hillary Rodham Clinton is not an electoral adversary, nor is she just another senator. By virtue of her appointment as Secretary of State, she is the representative of the United States to the world. She embodies American policy and reliability to other sovereign nations. To allow this image of her being treated with disrespect by a close associate of the president, someone who appears to be on track as a member of the administration, says two things to the nations and diplomats she will engage:

    Go ahead, piss on her. We do.
    We don't respect you enough to send someone we respect to treat with you.

    Link

    It's weird how he claims ... (5.00 / 8) (#14)
    by Robot Porter on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:07:30 PM EST
    that Dee Dee Meyers shouldn't be allowed to complain about sexism, because "her years on the staff of a certain president who used an intern for his sexual release."

    This is an absurd argument even if it she had worked for Clinton after the Lewinsky scandal broke.  

    But, in fact, she'd left the White House in 1994. Years before the Lewinsky Scandal.

    You're right, absurd on so many levels (5.00 / 4) (#44)
    by ruffian on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:42:06 PM EST
    I'll just correct another factoid.  Monica Lewinsky was not an intern when she had a consenting affair with Bill Clinton.  She was a 23 yr old regular paid staff member.

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    Ruffian, sorry to repeat your point (none / 0) (#62)
    by FoxholeAtheist on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:57:07 PM EST
    I was too busy typing to read your comment.

    Parent
    No problem at all (5.00 / 1) (#70)
    by ruffian on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 05:11:43 PM EST
    It bears repeating, if even Dems like Morrisey don't know the basic facts.

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    Agreed ... (5.00 / 1) (#106)
    by Robot Porter on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 06:20:13 PM EST
    thanks to both of you for adding that fact.

    I thought about doing it myself.  But didn't want the post to become about the Lewinsky scandal, and become more about Morrisey's absurd argument.

    Frankly, I think he only wrote the diary so he could post the picture again.  

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    I read her damn book. Lewinsky was there of her own volition, as an active and willing participant.

    Should Clinton have done it? Probably not. Should he have been impeached after he was trapped into fudging the truth about it? Hell, NO.

    It is beyond perverse, to suggest that Dee Dee should STFU about Favreau because she used to work for the Clinton Administration. If she  can't speak out, I guess that means the tens of millions of people who voted for Bill Clinton should STFU as well.

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    Consexual sex can still be (none / 0) (#104)
    by Lolis on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 06:18:24 PM EST
    an abuse of power. Bill Clinton (and his supporters) tried to smear Monica Lewinsky as delusional when the tapes first came out and he likely would have continued were it not for the DNA evidence.

    I like how you make excuses for Bill's lying. Some of the people on this site are no better than the "Obamabots" you decry, you are just the same, only for the Clintons.

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    This is where I didn't want the conversation ... (5.00 / 3) (#112)
    by Robot Porter on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 06:23:22 PM EST
    to go.

    Dee Dee Myers is allowed to talk about sexism no matter who she worked for.  

    And Morrisey's claim of hypocrisy (which is absurd anyway) doesn't pass muster because she didn't even work for Clinton at the time of Lewinsky scandal.

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    This photo was a topic of discussion (5.00 / 8) (#15)
    by oculus on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:09:47 PM EST
    at dinner last night.  Four professional, highly-educated females, two of whom worked their butts off for Obama campaign.  Two were early-Obama-adopters.  One hadn't seen the photo.  One who had sd.:  he wasn't touching her breast, and changed the subject to how I still mourn for Hillary 'loss, and why did I ever vote for her if I disapproved of her AUMF and Kyle-Lieberman votes.  Way to change the subject.

    Thank you Dee Dee Myers and BTD.

    He wasn't touching her breast?!?! (5.00 / 2) (#166)
    by lambert on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 09:30:02 PM EST
    Who you gonna believe? Me, or your lyin eyes?

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    Precisely. (5.00 / 1) (#177)
    by oculus on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 10:09:13 PM EST
    Were They Uncomfortable (none / 0) (#17)
    by squeaky on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:12:42 PM EST
    Because they see Obama and his minions incapable of doing wrong? Or were they uncomfortable because the topic was groping or some other reason?


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    Obama can do know wrong. (5.00 / 3) (#19)
    by oculus on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:14:03 PM EST
    Wow, these people have to get over.... (5.00 / 2) (#31)
    by Maria Garcia on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:27:46 PM EST
    ...that attitude because nobody is perfect. If they invest too much of themselves into Obama's alleged perfection they are either going to turn into simpletons like the most vehement right wingers or else become Obama haters when it finally dawns on them that maybe he has made a mistake or two in his life. Neither of which would be a good outcome.

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    They lack a center of their own. (5.00 / 3) (#53)
    by Jake Left on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:50:15 PM EST
    They need a leader, a figure to represent for them. My brother used to rely on the Baptist church for this. He once said that this way he doesn't have to bother thinking about issues or what is right or wrong. The church just tells him.

    These people don't want to think about it. If Obama does it, it is good. That then extends to anything anyone (like Hillary) who defied him does is bad.

    Not a lot of thinking going on here.

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    My read: I was a reluctant (5.00 / 4) (#66)
    by oculus on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 05:03:37 PM EST
    voter for Obama in the GE, really wished that, in his victory remarks, Obama could have found it in his heart to compliment Hillary Clinton.  I am being punished for being a hold out.  I suspect my friends have tunnel-vision re O.  Otherwise they are wonderful, bright, thoughtful people.

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    what he didn't say on election night (5.00 / 5) (#136)
    by noholib on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 07:37:12 PM EST
    As I commented earlier today, I noted at the time that he didn't mention women in his opening remarks (Democrat, Republican, gay, straight, etc.)  I also noted that he didn't say anything about Hillary Clinton who had worked so hard for him and the Democratic ticket during the primary.  I thought it very ungracious at the time.  
    P.S.  Do you think the Clintons' campaigning in Florida maybe just helped him win a very important state?  
    You know, this stupid disrepectful Favreau prank is opening up a lot of wounds again ... just when one could begin to get enthusiastic about an intelligent Democratic administration. Why doesn't Obama denounce sexism along with other evils? Just asking ...

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    It's a very good reminder (5.00 / 4) (#143)
    by nycstray on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 08:29:39 PM EST
    this stupid disrepectful Favreau prank is opening up a lot of wounds again

    We should send him Thank You cards for reminding us that even with Hillary appointed SoS, we still have a looooooooooong way to go, especially because "men" like him are out there.

    Damn, those wounds run deep. They're going to need a lot of healing. Wish it could start now . . . .

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    Men Like Favreau? (none / 0) (#150)
    by squeaky on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 08:44:14 PM EST
    Do you think that you know Favereau? Seems to me he has been reduced to a two dimensional figure, like a cutout.

    Perhaps you are thinking of people you do know.

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    Heh, he does seem to be fairly (5.00 / 2) (#172)
    by nycstray on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 09:54:39 PM EST
    cookie cutter. There is a "type" and he hasn't dispelled it. And yes, I can think of people I "know" [not by choice unfortunately].

    What I said is no different than classifying him as having Frat Boy type behavior. He's the one displaying it, not the cutout.

    This is the problem with his behavior, the photo and the Facebook posting. It does fit into a type. Not a cardboard cutout like you may want to pass it off as. He's the offender, not the cardboard cutout.

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    Sorry (none / 0) (#175)
    by squeaky on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 10:04:09 PM EST
    All I am responding to is that you claim:

    we still have a looooooooooong way to go, especially because "men" like him are out there.

    You do not know Favreau. All you know is that a photograph of him and pal groping a cutout of Hillary appeared on Facebook for 2 hours and has gone viral on the net, and he is Obama's speechwriter and he is 27 years old.

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    And that was what I was responding to (5.00 / 5) (#198)
    by nycstray on Thu Dec 11, 2008 at 12:19:08 AM EST
    He's acting like a freakin' sexist frat boy (nobody has come up with a better answer for his behavior aside from "he was just having fun" and "boys will be boyz" which don't fly). We do have a long way to go still specifically because of "men" like him, good ol' boyz and other boyz.

    You don't have to worry about working in an environment with him (and those like him), women do. I don't need to know him beyond Obama's speeches (which are very devoid of our gender issues) and his behavior at a party with not just any female cutout, but a cutout of a woman he should, in his position, have more respect for. Or is this Unity Pony BullCrap and nobody gave us the manual? I'm sorry, but his actions wouldn't fly in most "normal" workplaces, much less towards the next SoS. Silence on the matter hurts all women. And if you read through some of the reporting on this, he was also apparently caught on digital dancing around with the cutout. I'll put my next check on the bet they weren't all sitting around having respectful words about Senator Clinton. More like she was treated as more of a joke and party "favor". Shame those boys don't have better things to do with their time. Perhaps they could spare some time to help women in need?

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    Next chapter may be Arnold (none / 0) (#141)
    by oculus on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 08:25:02 PM EST
    Schwartzenegger, who has stated he would accept a position in the Obama administration and whose name is on someone's (Huff Post?) short list for, what was it, energy independence?

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    NoT Arne (none / 0) (#148)
    by squeaky on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 08:40:14 PM EST
    President-elect Barack Obama will appoint former Environmental Protection Agency chief Carol Browner to a new position coordinating White House policy on energy, climate and environmental issues, a Democratic aide said on Wednesday

    Reuters

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    Take our Governor, please. (5.00 / 1) (#149)
    by oculus on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 08:43:25 PM EST
    lol (none / 0) (#153)
    by squeaky on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 08:50:12 PM EST
    He is the main reason that the Hummer went into production, I think he bought four of them or something.

    It was in 1992 that AM General began producing the Hummer for civilian use, rumor has it that this was in response from Arnold Schwarzenegger who saw a platoon of the vehicles during the filming of Kindergarten Cop. H1, the first civilian model, retained many of the original features of the Hummer minus the combat machinery, this lead to the vehicles great popularity amongst those seeking the ultimate in toughness and mobility.

    link

    People can change.... I guess. Anyway thanks for the offer, but you can keep him, he was voted in by CA, and should stay there.

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    perhaps you have tunnel vision also (none / 0) (#108)
    by Lolis on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 06:21:21 PM EST
    just a thought.

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    So they say. (none / 0) (#111)
    by oculus on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 06:22:44 PM EST
    I'd rather have a critic ... (5.00 / 5) (#115)
    by Robot Porter on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 06:25:32 PM EST
    with tunnel vision than adherents with tunnel vision.

    The first can be problematic.  But the second is dangerous.

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    I've talked to some of ... (5.00 / 3) (#91)
    by Robot Porter on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 06:01:11 PM EST
    this type of Obama supporter.  The ones who go on and on about "needing a leader."

    I will repeat what I always said to them.  I'm a grown man, I don't need a "leader."  But I would like a good servant.  A good public servant.

    Human civilization is thousands of years old.  But the attitude of many towards governance is still at the cave man level.

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    A joke (5.00 / 1) (#36)
    by bocajeff on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:31:56 PM EST
    Can be sexist, racist, bigoted, or anything. It can also be funny, not funny, or somewhere in between.

    I believe context and intent has a lot do with things as well.

    Personally, I love all lawyer jokes even if some of my best friends are lawyers...

    co-sign (none / 0) (#116)
    by Lolis on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 06:25:51 PM EST
    I totally agree.

    I also think jokes allow us to deal with things that are uncomfortable to talk about seriously.

    This incident is an opportunity to have a conversation, a dialogue, without demonizing people. It is easier to get men to understand women's issues when you have the approach that their mistakes can be forgiven if they genuinely want to learn and/or change.

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    Hear Hear... (5.00 / 1) (#179)
    by kdog on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 10:34:05 PM EST
    Very well said.

    It would be really nice to hear from any women at the party for some context around a snapshot, if they felt uncomfortable, etc.

    It's certainly not classy behavior by any stretch, and if anyone at the party was uncomfortable anybody with some class would have put a stop to it.

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    How do you know somebody at the party (5.00 / 2) (#197)
    by FoxholeAtheist on Thu Dec 11, 2008 at 12:18:18 AM EST
    like a "woman" as you suggest, didn't eventually put a stop to it?

    However, I'm not saying that women should have to be the ones to discipline da 'boys'. They should be perfectly capable of disciplining themselves and one another.

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    Missed opportunities (5.00 / 3) (#191)
    by Amiss on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 11:49:40 PM EST
    This incident is an opportunity to have a conversation, a dialogue, without demonizing people. It is easier to get men to understand women's issues when you have the approach that their mistakes can be forgiven if they genuinely want to learn and/or change.

    The problem with Obama regarding this as  he did with Reverend Wright,is he buries his head in the sand until something else happens or it gets even worse before he begins to finally "get" that it is his responsibility to lead this nation on these issues and not ignore them as just "boyz will be boyz" as he has done in the past and is doing now.


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    Maybe Mr. Morrissey (5.00 / 6) (#40)
    by ruffian on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:37:01 PM EST
    can tell me what was funny about that picture, or the behavior it depicts, if one doesn't find the denigration of Hillary Clinton funny.  But I bet he can't. In this particular case there is no difference between the joke and the denigration. If you find it funny, I don't think you should be working in the same administration as SOS Hillary Clonton.

    I realize that there is some degree of denigration of someone in a lot of humor. That is why people who hope to make their career working for the president should not demonstrate their sense of humor on facebook.

    Should Be Fired (5.00 / 4) (#48)
    by usarlt on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:45:11 PM EST
    As I understand my companie's code of conduct, I would be in danger of losing my job if a picture of me doing this to a cutout of another employee were circulated around the office.

    Someone may have to complain about it first, but I would guess that at least one person in the government would be offended by this.

    I think Obama should fire him.


    This is pretty basic in most larger (5.00 / 4) (#56)
    by nycstray on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:53:09 PM EST
    companies and even small ones I worked for. And this type of policy has been around long enough that those in their twenties who have ever held a job should just plain old know better. Profile jobs are even more restrictive with behavior acceptance. Whether that profile job is in public or just as a representative of the employer with clients, customers etc. Something about professionalism pops into mind . . .

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    Agreed (5.00 / 5) (#67)
    by usarlt on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 05:04:29 PM EST
    And I want to be clear that I think this is a good thing.  In my 15 year career I have never had a problem treating all of my co-workers with respect.

    It's really not that hard.

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    It really isn't that hard! (5.00 / 3) (#72)
    by nycstray on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 05:21:31 PM EST
    Common decency, respect and all that. In my 20 something years, I've never had a problem with my treatment of co-workers. How a few of them have treated me is another story. And yes, it was sexism and one case, assault. Head of security no less . .   .

    I got that you thought it was a good thing :) I find it interesting that in this day and age, we would still need these policies {sigh}

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    It's about Us and Them. (5.00 / 4) (#73)
    by Fabian on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 05:25:23 PM EST
    If you think everyone is Us, then you treat them well.  If you think that some people are Them, then you feel free to to treat Them in a disrespectful manner.  Why?  Because they aren't Us.

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    It is called (5.00 / 1) (#192)
    by Amiss on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 11:51:25 PM EST
    Moral Turpitude. Favreau and evidently others in the new administration are sorely lacking in this.

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    Jokes have since their birth (5.00 / 3) (#61)
    by blogtopus on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:56:11 PM EST
    been almost always about 'That One', whoever they may be at the time. The rare jokes that aren't about making fun of some quality of someone else (or of themselves) or of something they've done, tend to be either incredibly clever and funnier than the usual kind, or mere puns.

    It would be a welcome change to go more in the direction of Steven Wright than Andrew Dice Clay.

    It's really been amazing (5.00 / 2) (#75)
    by smott on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 05:29:34 PM EST
    ...to me to see how deeply invested some people are in denying that this episode was offensive. Some of the stuff on Shakes a couple days ago was jaw-dropping. One guy (in all seriousness apparently) saying "what if Favreau was just pretending to be sexist?" or words to that effect.

    I mean seriously. Some real WTF?? moments.

    kdog has shown a little bit of stamina here, and a guy named OldCity on an earlier thread who brings cluelessness to another-planet level...but neither are like a couple of the guys on SS.

    Desperate, really.

    Here is an even more (5.00 / 1) (#76)
    by lilburro on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 05:30:18 PM EST
    dense article regarding Myers article on the Favreau photo:

    THE VICTIM TRAIN.

    ...

    This is a picture of Favreau, probably drunk, acting a fool at a gathering of his friends. Has Myers ever laughed at a racist joke? A sexist joke? Watched the movie Blazing Saddles? Enjoyed the comedy stylings of Eddie Murphy or Richard Pryor? Did something she regretted after having one drink too many? I know I have. In fact I don't know anyone who hasn't. Myers is proposing a level of scrutiny -- that private jokes between friends should be evaluated as professional conduct -- that no one in public life would survive. For the most part, liberals have spent the last ten years arguing that people's private lives are just that -- in large part because of the behavior of a former president that Myers used to work for. In going after Jon Favreau, Myers has essentially laid out the argument for impeaching Bill Clinton.

    But say that Favreau had been caught in a picture making a racist joke about Obama rather than a sexist joke about Hillary Clinton. In all likelihood, Obama would have either got angry, or laughed it off, but I doubt Favreau would have been fired, because Obama really hasn't shown a tendency to react particularly emotionally to racial slights. If he had, he wouldn't be where he is.

    --A. Serwer

    ...

    IOW (5.00 / 2) (#79)
    by lilburro on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 05:35:28 PM EST
    Sexism is not an issue.  And it never will be, because as soon as the issue is raised, progressives get defensive.  Some people clearly will only take progressivism so far.

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    And as soon as the issue of sexism (5.00 / 3) (#131)
    by Spamlet on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 07:09:17 PM EST
    is raised, though some progressives get defensive, some others reflexively change the subject to racism.

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    What problem? (none / 0) (#80)
    by Fabian on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 05:36:06 PM EST
    I don't see any problem!

    There.  They should just write those two sentences.

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    It's amazing too (5.00 / 1) (#83)
    by lilburro on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 05:45:20 PM EST
    the way it has been framed by Favreau's defenders:

    This is a picture of Favreau, probably drunk, acting a fool at a gathering of his friends.

    It's normal.  Deciding to pose for a picture groping a cutout of your opponent while a friend kisses her is normal.  That is a normal image to project.

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    And then (5.00 / 4) (#94)
    by vigkat on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 06:05:16 PM EST
    Posting on Facebook.  That extra step is hardly ever noted.

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    Exactly! (5.00 / 4) (#119)
    by Robot Porter on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 06:30:32 PM EST
    I think this shows more evidence of the culture of sexism in Obama circles.

    It's clear that Favreau never once thought this would be a problem.

    And THAT'S the problem!

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    Enough Already (none / 0) (#155)
    by liberalone on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 09:06:33 PM EST
    Culture of sexism in Obama circles?

    The problem I am having with this entire discussion is that rather than attacking the behavior, which was horrible, we are attacking individuals.  Labeling groups of Obama supporters as sexist does nothing to change behavior.

    Perhaps this sexist circle of Obama supporters would counter that there is a culture of victimhood and bitterness in the Clinton camp.

    Inform us how the behavior depicted in the photo leads to violent outcomes.  Inform us how public officials and their staff set the tone for the society as a whole.  Discuss the meaning of hostile work environment.

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    I, for one, have no problem (5.00 / 3) (#158)
    by dk on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 09:13:11 PM EST
    attacking individuals for exhibiting sexist behavior.  Sexism is not a victimless crime.  Individuals commit acts of sexism, and I for one think they should be called out for it.  Particularly when they are about to enter the White House.

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    Agreed (none / 0) (#168)
    by liberalone on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 09:34:57 PM EST
    A person with a very public position will and should be called out; however, claiming that the behavior at hand is indicative of their political perspective isn't always true.  To then blanket an entire group with the same accusation is also not true.  Favreau is a sexist pig, so all Obama supporters must be sexist pigs too.  

    I am commenting on the notion that Obama supporters are sexist and thereby Obama is sexist.  Sure they all (Obama included) may hold some sexist views.  I do not believe that sexism is any more pervasive in the Obama camp than it is in America, including the Clinton camp.  I don't believe you can change the behavior if your tactic is consistently call someone a sexist.  Those who didn't believe you the first 10 times wont believe you on the 11th.

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    I think there was tons of evidence ... (5.00 / 5) (#182)
    by Robot Porter on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 10:39:44 PM EST
    during the primaries that the Obama campaign condoned sexism, and participated to varying degrees in sexist attacks, and Obama himself made some remarks that were viewed as sexist.

    This is just more evidence that this was pervasive.

    This combined with similar actions that were viewed as homophobic is troubling to many Democrats.

    I know when it comes to sexism and homophobia everyone is told to "be a good sport" and STFU.  I don't always feeling like abiding by those voices.

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    Morrissey Got a Twofer (5.00 / 4) (#101)
    by santarita on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 06:16:18 PM EST
    He not only raised the typical rightwing whine about not being able to tell jokes anymore in our pc world but also managed a non sequitur attack on Bill Clinton.  

    And frankly, that's all he is doing.  He really isn't making any intelligent point about the nature of jokes.  And his comment about Dee Dee Myers is simply irrelevant.  I am amazed at what junk some of these pundits produce.

    His comment reminds me of the whining that I heard from my boss and even other attorneys about not being able to tell sexist or racist jokes in the workplace.  I got tired of trying to explain how hurtful such jokes can be to people and how they make the workplace less professional and productive.  I resorted to telling them they get the company sued.  'Nuff said.

    Panty-waist, Bernard Chazelle, weighs in. (5.00 / 1) (#138)
    by Compound F on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 08:06:54 PM EST
    Good One (none / 0) (#142)
    by squeaky on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 08:28:50 PM EST
    Really a nice read. Thanks...

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    I wish BAGnewsNotes (5.00 / 4) (#154)
    by lilburro on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 08:50:35 PM EST
    would cover this photo.  There is a lot going on in it.  That is one of the reasons I don't like Morrissey's article - he crops the photo.  

    One of the aspects that most disturbs me is that it's two guys, together.  They are both making abusive gestures at the cutout.  Sorry, that carries too much of an aura of gangbang to me.

    Having come recently from college and hearing stories of gangbangs done to less than willing or blacked out or nearly unconscious students by their peers, I think the symbolism is real and suggestive.  Not saying these two guys would necessarily hurt someone; but endorsing symbols of that is disturbing.

    And if personal anecdotes are not enough, check out Mary Gaitskills' "Girl on a Plane."

    Maybe it's been (5.00 / 5) (#169)
    by NYShooter on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 09:40:11 PM EST
    This one isn't even close. In an administration with even mediocre ethical credentials, he's be gone the instant Axlerod got wind of it.

    But,

    These are the folks who gave us:

    1. "She's a monster"
    2. Rev. Wright, "love him forever, throw'em under the bus."
    3. Blood libel, "Clintons are racists."
    4. Never once spoke up as legions begged him to put an end to his worshippers' disgusting misogyny.
    5. Seniors? Who needs'em?
    6. Working class? Who needs'em

    In that circle, groping and disrespecting Hillary just came naturally.


    Sorry... (5.00 / 1) (#183)
    by NYShooter on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 11:03:05 PM EST
    Should have read: maybe it's been covered already here on TL already, but Samantha Powers was fired instantly for making an inappropriate remark about Hillary Clinton which she thought (retroactively) was "off the record."


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    Speaking of blood libel... (5.00 / 1) (#189)
    by lambert on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 11:24:15 PM EST
    ... you forgot the RFK smear, that Hillary wanted Obama killed. (Ultra-classy gesture to make her SoS, then, eh?)

    Not to say that Obama might actually come through on some policy; saying the Republic Workers were "absolutely right" is a good thing. But I am saying that Obama never, ever deserves the benefit of the doubt on anything.

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    Not sure I understand (none / 0) (#196)
    by NYShooter on Thu Dec 11, 2008 at 12:12:21 AM EST
    "saying the Republic Workers were "absolutely right" is a good thing."

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    Samantha Power was suspended over her Iraq gaffe (5.00 / 3) (#199)
    by FoxholeAtheist on Thu Dec 11, 2008 at 12:41:46 AM EST
    See this story at Politico:
    For all the chatter about Obama adviser Samantha Power's calling Clinton a "monster," another set of remarks made on her book tour in the United Kingdom may be equally threatening to the Obama campaign: Comments in a BBC interview that express a lack of confidence that Obama will be able to carry through his plan to withdraw troops from Iraq within 16 months.

    The host, Stephen Sackur, challenged her:"So what the American public thinks is a commitment to get combat forces out in 16 months isn't a commitment isn't it?"

    "You can't make a commitment in March 2008 about what circumstances will be like in January of 2009," she said. "He will, of course, not rely on some plan that he's crafted as a presidential candidate or a U.S. Senator. He will rely upon a plan - an operational plan - that he pulls together in consultation with people who are on the ground to whom he doesn't have daily access now, as a result of not being the president. So to think - it would be the height of ideology to sort of say, 'Well, I said it, therefore I'm going to impose it on whatever reality greets me.'"

    *Power's Iraq gaffe was making its way around the world and it looked like Obama would have a whole mess of 'splanin to do. The Iraq story had to be killed, without calling attention to the story. So, a couple of days later Power called Hillary a "monster" and that became the new BIG STORY and the bogus rationale for firing her; a suspension really, since she's back in.


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    Remember Samanta Power? (5.00 / 1) (#173)
    by ding7777 on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 10:00:33 PM EST
    Samantha resigned from Obama's campaign for calling Hillary a "monster".  

    At the time, Power said Obama "made it absolutely clear that we just couldn't make comments like this in his campaign."
    link

    Obviously, Jon Favreau never got that message.

    Anyway, Smantha is back with Obama on the transition team...

    As one of the fourteen foreign policy experts who will focus on the State Department, Power will help the incoming administration prepare for Clinton's nomination as secretary of state, expected to be announced today.

    Granted, the naming calling and cardboard cut-out fondling happened during the campaign but is Obama stacking the deck against Hillary?

    Though Samantha Power ... (5.00 / 1) (#187)
    by Robot Porter on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 11:20:02 PM EST
    might have been let go because she had made some controversial statements about Obama's Iraq policy.

    The story both occurred at the same time.

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    ding, where did you get idea that the favreau (none / 0) (#200)
    by FoxholeAtheist on Thu Dec 11, 2008 at 12:44:49 AM EST
    incident happenened during the campaign. Word is that the photo is very recent.

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    except (5.00 / 1) (#203)
    by kmblue on Thu Dec 11, 2008 at 10:35:14 AM EST
    it shouldn't take place behind the scenes.
    what good does that do?
    We have a "teaching moment" here that will not be taught because his boss apparently doesn't think he did anything wrong.

    More bs

    Well... (none / 0) (#6)
    by kdog on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 03:53:50 PM EST
    some people can't take a joke, that's for sure, but I don't know if that makes them pantywaists or not.

    BTW...I love you guys, but ya can't come to my sister's annual Christmas Bash...the drinks really flow and lampshades have been known to be denigrated, humiliated, and disempowered:)  

    Your track record (5.00 / 2) (#8)
    by Big Tent Democrat on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 03:55:00 PM EST
    on these subjects speaks for itself.

    Suffice it to say that you would not want to invite me to your parties. I would certainly be a party "pooper" at them.

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    party "pooper" (none / 0) (#9)
    by squeaky on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 03:57:02 PM EST
    sounds kinky... even wet blanket in this context seems loaded...

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    As does yours sir..... (none / 0) (#11)
    by kdog on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:00:21 PM EST
    the lampshades, cardboard cutouts, and assorted inanimate objects are very lucky to have such a staunch defender:)

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    First they came the lampshades, (5.00 / 2) (#12)
    by sarcastic unnamed one on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:02:48 PM EST
    cardboard cutouts and assorted inanimate objects, but I did nothing, for I was a pantywaist.

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    I'm surprised you are partaking in this thread (5.00 / 1) (#21)
    by Big Tent Democrat on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:15:10 PM EST
    it not being criminal law related . . .

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    lol (none / 0) (#22)
    by squeaky on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:16:40 PM EST
    I keep telling you it's not about you (none / 0) (#27)
    by sarcastic unnamed one on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:22:25 PM EST
    it's about the topic. But you refuse to listen...

    Anyway, is it OK if the joke is meant to be denigrating?

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    Indeed (none / 0) (#20)
    by Big Tent Democrat on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:14:15 PM EST
    Your commenting on these subjectd has always revealed your utter cluelessness on these subjects.

    This is well trod ground between us.

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    Well Kdog, I'm all good (none / 0) (#68)
    by FoxholeAtheist on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 05:09:45 PM EST
    as long as the "denigrated, humiliated, and disempowered lampshade" doesn't have a picture of the SoS, or any other woman for that matter.

    Maybe it's just me, but I'm not even OK with a bunch of drunk, party boys going ape-s*it on a Playboy centerfold; throwing darts at it, spitting on it, squirting beer on it, or...well you get the idea.

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    Should people... (none / 0) (#156)
    by kdog on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 09:11:07 PM EST
    remove the pictures of Gdub and Slick Dick Cheney from their dartboards nationwide as well?

    Was Larry Flynt wrong to depict Jerry Falwell as having lost his virginity to his mother in an outhouse?

    It's all a question of taste...I've said the Favreau pic is juvenile, crass, lewd...I just can't call it sexist.  I don't think sexist is a  a word you throw around...though I would fight for your right to throw it around, while I disagree.  And being honest if I was sh*tfaced at a party and I saw a guy making out with a Hillary Clinton cardboard cutout I'd probably chuckle.  (I chuckled at Chewbacca:)  If I saw them spitting on it I would think wtf is wrong with this guy?

    As for my sisters annual always legendary Christmas bash, I assure you the lampshades are sexless..and anybody who jumps out of the hot tub to run around naked does so of their own free will.  It's the social event of the year in my circles:)

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    Does this mean "blond" jokes (none / 0) (#10)
    by sarcastic unnamed one on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 03:59:01 PM EST
    are bad too?

    Imo, yes (5.00 / 1) (#18)
    by Big Tent Democrat on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:13:15 PM EST
    I take it your mileage varies.

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    Speaking as a tow headed child (5.00 / 1) (#23)
    by nycstray on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:16:40 PM EST
    yes, especially at the office.

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    IMO, only blonds should be (none / 0) (#28)
    by oculus on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:22:34 PM EST
    permitted to tell blond jokes.  

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    Yup. (none / 0) (#30)
    by nycstray on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:27:16 PM EST
    all the girls in my family are blonds, so we sometimes pass them around if we find particularly silly ones. Of course, we have the added fun that my blond sister doesn't always get the jokes, lol!~ My mom can be soooooooo baaaaaaaaad! {grin}

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    "red-headed stepchild" type jokes in my time, for obvious reasons if you knew me. Can't say I really can feel they're "wrong" or "bad" jokes.

    Jokes can be mean, but the definition of "mean" seems to be shifting to encompass ever more jokes every day and I'm not sure that's a particularly good thing.

    Hey did you hear what Dolly Parton said about dumb blond jokes - "They never bother me becuase I'm not dumb. And I'm not blond."

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    Well, I'm not dumb either (5.00 / 1) (#50)
    by nycstray on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:46:59 PM EST
    but blond jokes can be used to undermine a person. Especially in a work place. Just another "nod and wink", imo.

    Are red-headed stepchildren" supposed to be dumb air heads?

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    Red-headed stepchild (none / 0) (#55)
    by sarcastic unnamed one on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:51:52 PM EST
    1.  red headed stepchild  308 up, 32 down
     A person or group treated without the favor of birthright.
    The boss treats this department like his red headed stepchildren.
    by Tim Sep 13, 2004 share this add comment

    2.  red headed stepchild  246 up, 34 down
     A child who is obviously not your own, a child who is treated worse than other children in the family  

    etc.

    I always laughed at the comments.

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    Thanks. Couldn't remember the context (none / 0) (#63)
    by nycstray on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:57:46 PM EST
    of how it was used. Obviously I don't use it or hear it often. "Chopped liver" is more common to me in that context.

    Hmmmmm, my cats love me, they love chopped liver . . . maybe I really am chopped liver to some  ;)

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    As the mom of a beautiful blond (5.00 / 4) (#41)
    by Cream City on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:38:15 PM EST
    young woman out in the workplace now, yes.  Yes, yes, yes.

    This is a young woman who faced so much in life already, and was fighting hard to stay in school against the odds of a chronic condition and more -- when blond jokes hit, and hit big here.  I cannot tell you how devastating the daily dose of dumb-blond jokes was to a young woman already insecure about her brainpower.

    And let me tell you, she is a bright, great kid.  But because she wasn't the bookish type to get great grades, every blond joke reinforced that a blond must not have brains.

    She's toughened up, sure.  But she still hears the occasional blond joke, beautiful blond that she is.  She has learned not to show the hurt.

    But it still hurts.  And I hope that she has learned from her mom to forgive but never forget.  She is moving up fast, she will be the boss of her workplace in no time -- and I hope that she is taking names of every a**hole . . . and that they never know quite what went wrong with their careers.  That's how I taught her.:-)

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    Wow. (none / 0) (#46)
    by sarcastic unnamed one on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:43:59 PM EST
    What, you thought there would be (5.00 / 1) (#102)
    by Cream City on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 06:16:28 PM EST
    no consequences?  I'm Irish.  We still hold grudges about what the Brits did 800 years ago.

    Forgive but don't forget has worked just fine for me.  Took me ten years once to get back at a bigshot who dissed me coming up in my career, but he still doesn't know why he didn't get a job he wanted when I became a bigshot.

    Took only a few years to get back at another guy who acted outrageously and illegally toward me, but I prefer not to litigate, when I can just move forward with my life -- while waiting for the chance to retaliate.  He really ought to have checked whether anyone related to me was on the hiring committee for that job he wanted last year, yet didn't even make the first cut.

    And I've still got more names on my list -- including anyone who messes with my kids.  I work for the largest employer in a large town, and they're sure to cross my path someday. . . .

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    Double wow. (5.00 / 1) (#122)
    by sarcastic unnamed one on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 06:35:07 PM EST
    Yeh, wow. Actions have consequences. (5.00 / 2) (#129)
    by Cream City on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 06:52:40 PM EST
    Hold the presses.

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    Hilarious (none / 0) (#130)
    by squeaky on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 07:04:54 PM EST
    To see how cycles of oppression play out. You were wronged for no good reason, so now you will seek vengeance for good reason.

    How do you know that you were wronged for no good reason, maybe your oppressor had a very good reason, and you were just unaware.

    After the revolution and the fascists take over. Rise up against all oppressors, grab power and start oppressing. Sounds about right, why should you be any exception.

    Sad that you are transmitting this venomous strategy, although I guess it is mainstream American thinking. Look at Iraq, Afghanistan, we are a nation that takes delight in revenge.

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    I hope you don't do hiring (5.00 / 2) (#132)
    by Cream City on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 07:16:32 PM EST
    because I can't imagine why you think it's a good idea to hire someone who has created a history of harassing women.  Did you read or just react?

    If you think that Mr. Favreau hasn't just closed a few doors in his future, with that photo on Facebook, you haven't done hiring these days.

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    Here's To (none / 0) (#133)
    by squeaky on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 07:25:45 PM EST
    Another 800 years.  I read, and saw that you forgive but don't forget. Not sure how that squares with your hit list. Seem like a formula for another 800 years of war.

    Although, as regards hiring,  I do not know many who would hire their enemies over someone equally qualified.

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    Now I'm getting worried. (none / 0) (#124)
    by Don in Seattle on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 06:37:52 PM EST
    Ko-Ko:
    As some day it may happen that a victim must be found,
    I've got a little list -- I've got a little list
    Of society offenders who might well be underground,
    And who never would be missed -- who never would be missed!
    There's the pestilential nuisances who write for autographs --
    All people who have flabby hands and irritating laughs --
    All children who are up in dates, and floor you with 'em flat --
    All persons who in shaking hands, shake hands with you like that --
    And all third persons who on spoiling tête-á-têtes insist --
    They'd none of 'em be missed -- they'd none of 'em be missed!

    Chorus:
    She's got 'em on her list -- she's got 'em on her list;
    And they'll none of 'em be missed -- they'll none of 'em be missed.

    Ko-Ko:
    And that Nisi Prius nuisance, who just now is rather rife,
    The Judicial humorist -- I've got him on the list!
    All funny fellows, comic men, and clowns of private life --
    They'd none of 'em be missed -- they'd none of 'em be missed.
    And apologetic statesmen of a compromising kind,
    Such as -- What d'ye call him -- Thing'em-bob, and likewise -- Never-mind,
    And 'St-- 'st-- 'st-- and What's-his-name, and also You-know-who --
    The task of filling up the blanks I'd rather leave to you.
    But it really doesn't matter whom you put upon the list,
    For they'd none of 'em be missed -- they'd none of 'em be missed!

    Chorus:
    You may put 'em on the list -- you may put 'em on the list;
    And they'll none of 'em be missed -- they'll none of 'em be missed!


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    Behave yourself, and stay in Seattle (5.00 / 1) (#128)
    by Cream City on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 06:52:11 PM EST
    and you should be fine.  I have enough to do in my town -- not that I have to find "victims" for my little list.  They get on it all by themselves, by their own behaviors.

    So your choice of songs here doesn't fit the situation at all -- not of Favreau at all, either -- but I didn't expect that your choice would.

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    The song was not intended as a comment on (none / 0) (#135)
    by Don in Seattle on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 07:30:59 PM EST
    Favreau, or "the situation."

    But thanks for the conditional non-threat.


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    Attribution please. (none / 0) (#140)
    by oculus on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 08:22:37 PM EST
    Gilbert and Sullivan -- The Mikado (none / 0) (#145)
    by Don in Seattle on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 08:33:19 PM EST
    Exactly. No cribbing. (5.00 / 1) (#146)
    by oculus on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 08:36:06 PM EST
    Public domain, I would have thought. (none / 0) (#147)
    by Don in Seattle on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 08:37:48 PM EST
    Sure. But why not give credit (5.00 / 2) (#152)
    by oculus on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 08:48:41 PM EST
    where credit is due?  Maybe a few more people would come to appreciate the cleverness.

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    I assumed a certain level of cultural literacy (5.00 / 1) (#171)
    by Don in Seattle on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 09:51:46 PM EST
    on the reader's part. A defensible stylistic decision, I think: The Mikado isn't particularly obscure. (You, for instance, knew it all along.)

    If at some point, I decide to quote The Golden Rule ("Do unto others as you would have them do unto you") at someone, I intend to just do it, sans attribution, and probably even sans quotation marks. It would be creaky and borderline insulting to the reader to say:

    "And as ye would that men should do to you, do ye also to them likewise."

    The Bible, King James Edition, Book of Luke, Chapter 6, Verse 31



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    Of course I knew it was from (none / 0) (#176)
    by oculus on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 10:06:00 PM EST
    Mikado, as I played the piano for it in junior high school.  But, especially since there isn't as much public school music these days, I wonder how many younger people (even the TL constituency) knew that.

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    DIdn't Obama (none / 0) (#24)
    by smott on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:18:38 PM EST
    Take Imus to task for calling the Rutger's Women's basketball team "nappy-headed hos" ?

    With him and almost everyone else (5.00 / 6) (#43)
    by Cream City on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:41:45 PM EST
    commenting on that, it was interesting to see how much attention was put on the "nappy-headed" part -- the racial part.  Little was said about calling those fine young women whores . . . except by them, their coach, their parents, especially their fathers.  I watched it quite closely.  And I could see, from that, a foreshadowing of how this campaign year would go.

    This society is so backward.  And the costs are huge for us all, when more than half of the people in this country keep being held back from being all that they can be, as the saying goes.

    Imagine, for example, how our economy might be by now if that majority of our population was not still being held back by, well, stupidity -- but stupidity of others.

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    I noticed... (5.00 / 1) (#69)
    by lentinel on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 05:11:04 PM EST
    that people loved repeating what Imus said - over and over again.

    It's like the Lenny Bruce routine where he tells about being arrested for saying "blah-blah-blah". (C-cks-cker). When he arrived for his court appearance, the judge said, "You mean he said "blah-blah-blah?". The prosecutor replied, " Yes, your honor he said "blah-blah-blah". And on and on around the courtroom - from the police, defense attorneys etc. Everybody got their chance to say, "blah-blah-blah". And Lenny noticed that they were really enjoying doing so.

    In condemning Imus, I really got the impression that most of the people criticizing Imus really loved repeating what Imus said - over and over. "He said ......".

    Sick and getting sicker.

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    Man... (none / 0) (#167)
    by kdog on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 09:33:37 PM EST
    Lenny Bruce...good call.  

    What would he say about all this?  

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    Wow. (none / 0) (#51)
    by shoulin4 on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 04:48:37 PM EST
    In fact, Obama spoke out as an aggrieved father, (none / 0) (#190)
    by Don in Seattle on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 11:31:23 PM EST
    and specifically as the father of daughters. From the April 12, 2007 New York Times story "NBC News Drops Imus Show Over Racial Remark":

    Senator Barack Obama, the Illinois Democrat who is running for president, called on MSNBC and CBS Radio to disassociate themselves from Mr. Imus, and said that he would never go on the show again. He said he had appeared once, more than two years ago.

    "He didn't just cross the line," Mr. Obama said in an interview with ABC News. "He fed into some of the worst stereotypes that my two young daughters are having to deal with today in America."

    It's interesting to see at the time Obama got lower billing as a prominent Black spokesman than Al Sharpton, and that The Times felt it necessary to remind its readers that Obama was "the Illinois Democrat who is running for president."

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    Re: Can A "Joke" (none / 0) (#85)
    by oculus on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 05:47:57 PM EST
    Be "Denigrating?"

    Wracking my brain here.

    What does this remind me of?
    Answer:  Carousel.  Can a slap feel like a kiss?

    You know what, (none / 0) (#100)
    by shoulin4 on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 06:16:06 PM EST
    Any type of discrimination is wrong. Period. But what I really disagree with is how people pretend that sexism in this country is on the same level of "problem" as racism in this country. That's not to say that sexism in this country isn't a huge problem, I'm just saying that people need to treat it as a different problem. Not a bigger problem or a smaller problem or an easier problem or a more serious problem, just a different problem altogether. I think overly-zealous people need to stop comparing sexism to racism or any other "ism" and treat it as its own problem. In this country, a picture of a black person being hung is more offensive than a woman being groped is because for quite some time, blacks were treated as worth less than beasts of burden. At the same time, while the country has finally recognized that it's not ok to treat someone like an animal because of the color of their skin, many people in this country still accept that women are treated as non-adults or objects solely for the pleasure of others as ok.

    However, it's important for people to keep a little perspective on this. Plainly stated, there haven't been any stonings at my local Wal-Mart today for women going out without a male escort. Last time I checked, I have the freedom to learn in the same building as my male classmates. Does that mean that the fight against sexism is over and I should be satisfied with just slight denigrations towards my gender? Of course not. But I'm not going to foam at the mouth over it either. Just as I didn't foam at the mouth at Rush Limbaugh's "Barack the Magic Negro" song (in that situation, I just continue my plans for the biggest celebration ever when he finally dies of a heart attack). The reason why is the same reason why it was a bit unfortunate when Paris Hilton went to jail and the entire country acted like it was the second coming of Jesus. That the guy was caught doing inappropriate things to a cardboard cutout of one of his female co-workers is terrible, but the fact that members of Congress today were on TV raking the Treasusy department over the coals because they, essentially, don't know where the $350 billion that was supposed to be used to increase lending has gone should give people a little bit more pause.

    If Obama's speechwriter has to go, then let him be fired and put that particular situation in the past. For people to try to paint this guy as the same as a guy getting ready to go on a lynch party is completely absusrd and over-the-top. He's a stupid guy? I agree. He secretly runs a sex-slave operation that kidnaps female members of government, and then hangs them and that this can be absolutely proven by a picture of him groping a Hillary Clinton cardboard cut-out? Hyperbole. In that case, the FBI should run an investigation of all companies that sell the Hillary Clinton nutcrackers and throw them all in prison for the rest of their lives.

    For a lynching, I'd put him in prison (5.00 / 1) (#110)
    by Cream City on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 06:22:07 PM EST
    so I think firing him for this foolishness is perfectly in perspective.  And who here has called for anything more?  Seems your post is the first to go past that marker to, well, a bit over the top.

    And especially in light of Obama's much-publicized job application form clearly communicating that such a photo online somewhere would nix a job with Obama.  So is he gonna walk the walk or just keep talking the talk that this guy writes for him?

    Btw, as an educator, I can tell you that in certain fields, you do not have the same chance to learn as the guy next to you.  And in most fields, where you do get the same chance to learn, you're going to get the same start in a career, which is progress.  But within ten years, your pay will be less than that of the guy next to you in college.  

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    Is he gonna talk the talk or be a real POTUS and (5.00 / 3) (#195)
    by Amiss on Thu Dec 11, 2008 at 12:11:32 AM EST
    walk the walk as well as talk the talk?
    And especially in light of Obama's much-publicized job application form clearly communicating that such a photo online somewhere would nix a job with Obama.  So is he gonna walk the walk or just keep talking the talk that this guy writes for him?



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    I'm not saying (none / 0) (#127)
    by shoulin4 on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 06:51:27 PM EST
    that he shouldn't be fired. If that's what is being conveyed, then sorry. I'm not saying that it's not a big deal. If that's what is being conveyed, then sorry. I'm saying that there are bigger deals in this country of ours and people need to seriously stop peeing their pants over the not as big-of-a-deals as this.

    "Seems your post is the first to go past that marker to, well, a bit over the top." There was an argument up thread that groping a cardboard cut-out is the same as tying a noose around said cardboard cutout, so I'm not applying this to people that don't exist. The people peeing their pants over this particular incident is what I call over-the-top, considering the quite dire situation that the country is in. Let the guy be fired for his stupidity and then let us move to bigger deals. If Obama doesn't fire him, then I don't know what to do, but I really just think there are more pressing matters at hand than this specific incident. If you or others don't, then we obviously disagree and there's no point in arguing.

    I'm well aware that I'm disadvantaged, not only by my gender, but by my race, age, and the circumstances of my prior education. But my mom instilled in me an intense achieve ethic and worked her butt off to get me where I am today, which is that I'm so much better than all of my classmates, period, that I have gained respect over the years to the point that I have achieved alot of things (My mom is my greatest hero!)

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    I've made the lynching of (5.00 / 3) (#144)
    by dk on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 08:33:00 PM EST
    cardboard cutout point, but not because I think racism and sexism are the same, but because both are representations of violence that should be condemned.  I have only seen this brought up in the context of responding to those progressives who rightly protest against racism yet who jump in sumersaults in an attempt to say that the picture is of anything other than misogyny.  People are frustrated over the hypocricy and make this point to express that frustration.

    As for your point that there are other, more important, things to worry about, I guess I have two responses.  One has to do with priorities.  People disagree on priorities, as you point out.  I personally think that the systemic misogyny that exists in the US is one of our top concerns.  Not only is it a civil rights issue, but it effects our economic health in very dramatic ways.  Saying it's not so important a priority is minimizing the negative effect it has on all Americans.  Secondly, it is possible to worry about more than one thing at a time.  In fact, we hope that a good executive manager will be able to do such things.  I don't see how expressing concern over this issue has anything to do with not being concerned about other issues.  

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    Let me bring attention (none / 0) (#160)
    by shoulin4 on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 09:15:59 PM EST
    to the fact that I have repeatedly made references to "this incident". I do not say that the big fight against sexism as unimportant and am insulted that you're implying that I'm saying that. What I'm saying is that people are acting as if he had gone out and murdered this woman. I'm saying that people are taking a big reaction to this not-so-big problem. Is he stupid? Yes. Is he the sexist 2-dimensional disgusting pig that represents all sexism everywhere that people are progressively making him out to be? That's hard to say from this picture.

    You are basically saying that I don't think that the fight against sexism is important. I'm saying that 'that' is hyperbole. That would be like me saying that I'm not going to get all worked up about Rush Limbaugh singing "Barack the Magic Negro" on his radio show, and people telling me that I don't care about the fight against racism. That is hyperbole. Rather than Rush Limbaugh, maybe I'm diverting a little more attention to the fact that dozens of young black males are quite often tried as adults for minor crimes and are sent to fill up our prisons for an unreasonable amount of time.

    I never said don't express concern over lesser things. I'm saying that there are people acting like that this particular incident is the most important thing to hit the world since sliced bread. I'm saying that I'm surprised that so many people online, bloggers, media, whatever, are so much more focused on this than what Hillary Clinton is actually focused on: that is to stop the bus from falling off the cliff before dealing with the pigs in the back of the bus.

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    There are always "bigger" deals... (5.00 / 6) (#159)
    by tnjen on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 09:14:06 PM EST
    ...always even when they're nothing of the sort. Men (and women) convincing women of bigger deals, read the interests of men, are the very reason women are so far behind.

    A SAMPLING OF BIGGER DEALS:

    Equality would be nice and all but we've got a war going on... We'd like to pay you more but men have to take care of families... Say, why don't you help us get this bill passed now and later will get to you?.... Hey, we'll do something about all the systematic rape and violence aimed at you since the dawn of time but first we gotta make sure men of color can sue for discrimination (no, honey we're not gonna change this law here so women can sue for equal pay -- this is just color, religion, national origin etc. you know, real things)... Hey, hon, how bout we get this law on fair housing passed and then we'll worry about you being able to get the same loans as your male counterparts...

    Oh what was that? You did not just compare the systematic sexual assault, murder, rape, and violence against women to real hate crimes because lemme tell you hate crimes -- you know crimes that target a person based on who they are -- happen to men and you ought to be ashamed of thinking for one second the violence inflicted on you compares to the suffering of men...
    ------------------------------------------------------------------------

    And the bigger deals could go on forever, as they mostly have, while women have waited on the sidelines for their turn -- for something as simple and fundamental as the Equal Rights Amendment to pass that acknowledges that yes, we are full and equal citizens in this country (we're still waiting). The 'bigger' deal is nothing more than a distraction -- a ingenious, if devilish, way of minimizing the very real wrongs have and are taking place. It prevents progress convincing us that we can't achieve many things all at once and without sacrificing one for another.

    Stand up for yourself and your mother. There are few deals bigger than full equality and we certainly do NOT have to choose between pursuing equality and an end to anti-woman bigotry and other things like ending the war or fixing the economy.

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    tnjen, you've got the moral high ground here... (5.00 / 4) (#201)
    by FoxholeAtheist on Thu Dec 11, 2008 at 12:53:44 AM EST
    and the rational high ground. Don't budge, hold your ground. You said it all passionately and you've got the facts right.

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    So you're saying (none / 0) (#165)
    by shoulin4 on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 09:28:01 PM EST
    that I don't care about sexual assault, rape, unequal pay, et al because I'm saying that people shouldn't lose their minds over the guy who groped a cardboard cutout of Hillary Clinton, who apologized to her (and may or may not have been privately reprimanded) and who was apparently forgiven by the Hillary Clinton in question, but rather people should lose their minds over the women whose cases haven't been resolved, over all the women who have been screwed over by the new law that still allows them only a limited time after employment to report unequal pay, over the fact that the sex slave business is alive and well in this oh-so-pure nation of ours? So you're saying that I approve of my mom and myself being subjugated? So you're saying that I think that we should both lay down and accept it? Thanks alot. I'm sure glad you know what I'm thinking, because I guess somebody has to. Especially since I have no inkling of what discrimination and sexual assault is like at all.

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    Not at all - I'm saying you're minimizing (5.00 / 6) (#174)
    by tnjen on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 10:04:03 PM EST
    ...things when you engage in 'it's no big deal' and/or 'we've got bigger things to worry about.' You're dismissing the issue as non-important because you've decided that X is bigger or worse or that the incident simply isn't worth your time and not just that but it's not worth anyone's time. You also added an element of scorn to your dismissal to anyone who does think it's more important than your personal ranking of importance when you described them as peeing themselves.

    Dismissal like that and minimization is something that's been used for ages to stop progress and present a false choice between the progress of women and other 'bigger' issues. I'm saying don't fall for the distraction of bigger things. The issue isn't what's going on over there -- it's not another issue -- it's this issue. Stand up. Fight for it.

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    Sexism in general (none / 0) (#181)
    by shoulin4 on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 10:38:50 PM EST
    is not "no big deal." This particular incident, once again, is becoming even a smaller and smaller deal especially because it seems to have been dealt with. I'm not minimalizing because it's already been minimalized. And there are people being outrageous about it, as there always will be, I guess. There is legitimate concern, and then there is lableing this guy as all things women-hater, then labeling all O-supporters as in the same lot, eventually blaming Obama himself. I call that peeing one's self. If it's not you, then I'm not talking about you. You're saying that I'm not fighting, that I'm just ignoring it all. I've been fighting my whole, though it may be short, life. But I pick my battles, and if something has been dealt with, then I move on.

    EXAMPLE:

    I think that people should deal with this and move on. I think there is cause for concern but there are even greater causes for concern when it comes to sexism. He's apologized, Clinton has forgiven, things seem resolved. If he still should be fired then push Obama to the point where he will be fired. That is my opinion. If anyone thinks that I don't care about sexism, or any type of discrimination because I choose not to devote all of my energies to this particular, seemingly-resolved, problem, then they are mistaken. As a victim of sexual assault and discrimination myself, I am simply saying that I don't think that this particular incident should be given 'as much' attention as it is being given, especially since it seems to have been resolved. Note that I say 'as much' and not 'any'. This is solely my opinion. If it is still presumed that I don't care at all about sexism, then oh well. Here is my opinion from my fingers and has been approved by me. No other words from other people can be used as an exact translation of my opinion especially if there are things that I did not say. If I have still offended people with my opinion, feel free to argue about things that I have said, and I guess about things that I have not said. I 'choose' not to continue arguing this point because I think my point has been made pretty clear. I 'choose' to lend other energies in providing other opinions where I see appropriate because they are my opinions. This point that I have argued so far is important to me. However, I think that enough has been said/done about this particular point on this particular post in this particular blog on this particular website. In a different situation, I may argue differently, because it is a different situation and therefore requires a different perspective. I do not mean to dismiss this arguement as unimportant. I mean to say "case closed" on this particular argument in this particular post in this particular blog on this particular website. Again, I think it's important, but I also think it has been resolved, or at least clearly stated.

    If I were to come to this post tomorrow everyday from now on for days on end with the same amount of attention while ignoring other, and perhaps even bigger problems that I could lend my energies to, I would say to myself, perhaps you should lend your energies to other things especially if this post has been, supposedly, resolved. If I persisted and said that I don't care about any of my problems or concerns, I'd say to myself that I'm being outrageous, or that I'm being hyperbolic, or that I'm peeing my pants. If I said that I was insulting me, I'd tell myself that I'm trying to be as clear as possible, and sometimes one can only sugar coat things for so long. If I told myself that I'm being mean, I'd say, oh well.

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    Favreau reports to Obama (5.00 / 4) (#186)
    by lambert on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 11:19:25 PM EST
    Therefore, Obama, as Favreau's manager, is responsible for Favreau. "Case closed." QED.

    In this instance, the matter really is crystal clear, since the transition team demanded a listing of FaceBook material. So, either Favreau did not comply (however briefly) or the transition team did  not care. In either case, the buck stops with Obama.

    In fact, that matter is so simple that it requires great prolixity and incredible investment in obfuscatory verbiage to make it seem complex; a tactic I've seen on my own blog, and which is excellently exhibited by the comment to which I am responding;

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    I suspect Mr. Favreau, who seems (5.00 / 4) (#194)
    by oculus on Thu Dec 11, 2008 at 12:02:04 AM EST
    to be indispensable to Obama, was not required to be vetted in the manner of, say, Hillary Clinton, and others.  

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    You protest (none / 0) (#114)
    by kmblue on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 06:24:15 PM EST
    too much.

    shorter version:  get over it

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    Sorry Cream (none / 0) (#118)
    by kmblue on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 06:27:52 PM EST
    I was replying to shoulin, as you probably guessed.

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    That's not it. (none / 0) (#123)
    by shoulin4 on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 06:36:07 PM EST
    But I'm glad that you can read my mind.

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    Er, no (5.00 / 3) (#188)
    by lambert on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 11:21:39 PM EST
    Surely you're familiar with the "shorter" riff?

    The commenter isn't claiming to read your mind at all. Rather, the commenter claims that a great many words can be reduced to a very few, and that what is complicated -- or has been made to seem complicated -- is in fact quite simple. See how easy?

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    I guess that's why I like yiddish (none / 0) (#125)
    by Militarytracy on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 06:44:51 PM EST
    It sounds sort of cute or something.  Nobody gets bent when I use it.  It's like using baby words, the first sounds that we all raspberried out .  And you call someone a putz and nobody seems to be able to acknowledge that you just called someone a penis in any meaningful sense.  A lot of name calling has such touchy origins, who knows where this yiddish stuff came from.  Moses is gone now and left with a lot of his touchy secrets :)

    Pantywaist, Bernard Chazelle, on (none / 0) (#151)
    by Compound F on Wed Dec 10, 2008 at 08:47:52 PM EST
    In my industry (none / 0) (#202)
    by OldCity on Thu Dec 11, 2008 at 09:51:59 AM EST
    and in most with which interact professionally, the guy would not be fired.  Censured?  For sure.  

    There's a weird (to me) strain of people who seen to think that public pillory and humiliation will teach the man a lesson.  I disagree.  I think that such action will further entrench his attitudes (if he really has them) or, if this was an aberration, really engender vindictiveness.

    I think the far more productive route is to counsel him, require apology, and then monitor future behavior.  Rehabilitation is far more effective in a case like this than zero-sum punishment.  

    The thing about humor is that it's so subjective.  we all know people who have no sense of humor whatsoever.  But, our differences are the source of much of our humor.  To raise this kid's actions to level of an "assult" is ridiculous.  If he were your kid, or your valued employee I'll be ten bucks that none of you would either find his firing justified or fire him.  But, you'd use the event as an opportunity for education.  And that, perhaps (appropriately) behind the scenes is what is taking place.  

    To #201: (none / 0) (#204)
    by shoulin4 on Thu Dec 11, 2008 at 12:22:12 PM EST
    Alright then, so I'm irrational and amoral. I'm glad that we're all in agreement. Oops! Forgot my pitchfork.

    And to #188, in the context of these blogs, the phrase "get over it" is quite a pejorative to insist that whatever issue you may be talking about is unimportant. Nowhere have I said that this is issue is unimportant. Nowhere have I said that this is issue is unimportant. Nowhere have I said that this is issue is unimportant. But it seems people are all too happy to label me with their pre-conceived stereotypes of the "blogger boyz" that don't have any clue about sexism or abuse against women so that they can claim they know better than me about my own experiences or about my own feelings, saying that I'm morally low or in even one case called me a troll for simply trying to defend my opinion against the mass mob mentality of "us" vs. "them". For the last time, I'm not saying that this issue is unimportant and if there are still people pretending that 'that' is indeed what I'm saying, then there is no help for them. If all the commenter got out of my, what I thought was at least a decently-formed opinion was "get over it, i.e. it's not at all important so stop whining," then that poster is gaining something from my post that I did not put in. For them to do that, they'd probably have to be reading my mind or making stuff up. In this case, I guess the latter is true because, still, in my mind, I don't think that this issue is unimportant. I do not agree that "get over it" sums up my post. I am not such a simpleton to not know what a summary is. I know what a summary is and "get over it" is not an accurate summary of my post.

    shoulin4 (none / 0) (#205)
    by sarcastic unnamed one on Thu Dec 11, 2008 at 12:27:49 PM EST
    I've found that on the internet (and, often, in real life) there are only two positions too many others will allow you to occupy - you are either their savior or you are their persecutor. Don't sweat it. There is no middle ground.

    amazing ... (none / 0) (#206)
    by wystler on Thu Dec 11, 2008 at 02:33:51 PM EST
    ... how so many have wandered nearly(?) off-topic, when all BTD did was question Ed Morrissey.

    I have no time or patience left (none / 0) (#207)
    by TeresaInPa on Thu Dec 11, 2008 at 06:50:34 PM EST
    it is 2008 and "understanding" will come with consequences.  Anyone who doesn't understand how offensive this is and why this little jerk should be fired it chosing not to understand and never will understand until they are forced to understand.

    One of the things that made me sick about John Edwards running for president when he had to know his cheesy affair would go public is that he failed to learn from what happened to Bill Clinton.  Before  that time there was a reasonable expectation that the media and political enemies would leave that sort of thing alone because they always had.  So you can almost forgive Bill's stupid behavior.  However Edwards had no such expectation and IMO, no right to threaten the party with a run that was all about his ego and sense of entitlement (I think there is a good chance that Obama is going to be judged the same when all is said and done).  
    So my point is that, there is no time left for dialogues and understanding.  My favorite West Wing character, Toby once said of the Middle East Terror states that "they will like us when we win".  In other words, someone may be too stupid or too stubborn to understand why should I give a flying freep?  All I care about is do they get smacked hard enough to stop doing it?

    Personally I will think of this graphic every time Obama opens his mouth to make a speech and I intend to photoshop a lot when there are pictures of him speaking.... cutting in clips of this pic and tying them to his public appearances.  Maybe if enough of us do it Obama will learn there are consequences for the choices he makes and this dumb*ss frat boy will learn too.

    Fire him OB. He doesn't belong in the white house until he is house broken.