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Melissa McEwan has a nice post about Tom Colicchio, now of Top Chef fame (he was a famous chef before that of course). Some highlights from the article:

Of our final three, Richard had the most experience, the most imagination, and by far the most technical proficiency. He had consistently wowed us during the season, and frankly, this was his competition to lose. . . . My sense is that Richard lacked that last little bit of grit that causes one to hang in there, no matter what. Call it the "Hillary" factor.

Hillary as a positive role model? Who'da thunk it? More . . .

Women are reluctant to enter the culinary world because they believe (and this is not unjustified) that a cooking career is incompatible with raising children, which leaves those of us who want to hire, promote, and mentor women with a slimmer field to choose from than we'd like. And to an extent, they're right: The bottom line is our society does not yet provide women in the workplace with the type of social supports, like high-quality subsidized child care or extended parental leave, that allows them to fully go for it, and the impact this has on the scope and depth of a career is profound. Right or wrong, men plunge into their careers without much thought about how they'll navigate the work/family balance. They assume someone -- spouse, parent, paid caregiver -- will materialize to take care of it (and usually someone does.) This one assumption opens up an entire world of possibility to a young person in a way that can't be overstated. Ask yourself how many female Ferran Adrias, Thomas Kellers, or Joel Robuchons have chosen a different path -- say, catering or opening a bakeshop -- because it seems more family friendly?

No Larry Summers in Chef Colicchio.

Personal aside, my name dropping moment, I knew Colicchio a little bit through a friend of mine, many years ago -- before Gramercy Tavern, when he was up and coming. He was the chef at a restaurant on 58th (somewhere around there) off of Fifth. Already a rising star. I went to the Belmont Stakes with him and a group of people. Nice enough fellow then.

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    If Anyone Can Be Called A Fighter and Has (5.00 / 4) (#1)
    by PssttCmere08 on Mon Jun 16, 2008 at 07:12:45 PM EST
    the wherewithall to withstand any challenge thrown at her....it is Hillary Clinton.  Tom is right on the money.

    I love it! (5.00 / 3) (#8)
    by Grace on Mon Jun 16, 2008 at 07:17:02 PM EST
    Everyone should have some "Hillary factor"!    

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    I agree (5.00 / 3) (#11)
    by befuddledvoter on Mon Jun 16, 2008 at 07:18:16 PM EST
    I am one tough lady but Hillary just amazed me.  Her stamina is unbelievable!!!!!  She has inspired me like no other woman has.  

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    I love this guy!! (5.00 / 0) (#32)
    by ghost2 on Mon Jun 16, 2008 at 08:06:40 PM EST
    Awesome quotes!

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    Here-here for the "Hillary factor" (5.00 / 4) (#2)
    by TeresaInSnow2 on Mon Jun 16, 2008 at 07:13:01 PM EST
    Hopefully it's nothing like the "O'Reilly factor"

    Grit, tenacity, toughness, smiling through the pain.

    High quality subsidized child care? (5.00 / 3) (#3)
    by dianem on Mon Jun 16, 2008 at 07:13:19 PM EST
    For men, that would be ... wives?

    <sigh> This is a wonderful commentary, and I really like the way she put a positive spin on Hillary's tenacity. That was what was lacking this election cycle. The media could have admired her tenacity - instead she got called names for sticking around, like an ex-wife from hell.

    Actually.. (5.00 / 4) (#6)
    by JustJennifer on Mon Jun 16, 2008 at 07:15:24 PM EST
    those comments were made by Tom, not the female writer.  

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    "High Quality Subsidized" childcare (5.00 / 2) (#7)
    by TeresaInSnow2 on Mon Jun 16, 2008 at 07:16:25 PM EST
    for men would be a wife with a part-time job (aka the subsidy).

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    Sadly enough (5.00 / 3) (#31)
    by massdem on Mon Jun 16, 2008 at 07:51:26 PM EST
    the only people in the media that I ever heard admiring her tenacity and grit were the right-wingers who didn't like her in the first place.  Can you imagine if Obama was in her shoes, and still hanging on in June?  Chris Mathews' tingle would probably turn into a seizure.

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    Love Top Chef (5.00 / 2) (#4)
    by JustJennifer on Mon Jun 16, 2008 at 07:14:03 PM EST
    I read his blog on bravotv.com and caught the Hillary comment too.  

    I was glad that a woman finally won.  I am even more glad that she deserved it.  We don't want to win because people feel sorry for us or because someone wants to make us a token... we just want to win when we earn it.  :)

    I've been rootin' for Stephanie (none / 0) (#39)
    by nellre on Mon Jun 16, 2008 at 09:26:18 PM EST
    for weeks... but I would have been satisfied with Richard.
    Unlike that other contest we discuss here.

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    Me too. (none / 0) (#46)
    by Iphie on Mon Jun 16, 2008 at 11:56:55 PM EST
    I knew that both she and Richard would be in the top three, but I was rooting for her. Next season Top Chef, NYC, baby!

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    He cooked at FAO Schwartz?! ;-) (5.00 / 1) (#5)
    by andgarden on Mon Jun 16, 2008 at 07:14:26 PM EST
    (Seriously, good point. "Happy Warrior" Hillary has grit. )

    You're right (none / 0) (#9)
    by Big Tent Democrat on Mon Jun 16, 2008 at 07:17:20 PM EST
    Maybe it was 60th? It was right near the corner off of 5th. In a hotel. The Plaza Athenee?

    I am trying to remember. I'm old dude. this was 20 years ago.

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    "losing his bearings" (none / 0) (#13)
    by lilburro on Mon Jun 16, 2008 at 07:20:17 PM EST
    snark, of course :P (none / 0) (#26)
    by lilburro on Mon Jun 16, 2008 at 07:34:36 PM EST
    so supplements I...no irony mark on my keyboard.

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    It was Mondrian I think (none / 0) (#14)
    by Big Tent Democrat on Mon Jun 16, 2008 at 07:21:36 PM EST
    based on reviewing his bio.

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    heh (none / 0) (#15)
    by andgarden on Mon Jun 16, 2008 at 07:22:24 PM EST
     I would demand to be taken to FAO when I was a kid visiting New York so I could stomp on the piano from Big, with Tom Hanks.

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    yes, my kiddies did that too. (5.00 / 1) (#29)
    by Maria Garcia on Mon Jun 16, 2008 at 07:44:27 PM EST
    Big, the musical, was the first Broadway show I took them to.

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    I don't know what (none / 0) (#45)
    by Iphie on Mon Jun 16, 2008 at 11:52:45 PM EST
    restaurant was in the hotel 20 years ago, but the Plaza is at 58th and 5th (across the street from the GM building, which is where FAO Schwartz is -- also the 24 hour Apple store) so your memory might not be as bad as you think.

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    You can say that again (5.00 / 2) (#10)
    by Stellaaa on Mon Jun 16, 2008 at 07:17:49 PM EST
    I love Tom.  Stephanie the winner had the Hillary Moxie.  

    So maybe if Obama could just read this (5.00 / 1) (#12)
    by lilburro on Mon Jun 16, 2008 at 07:19:18 PM EST
    he'd do better with female voters.

    Actually, I'm serious.  This is a great statement by Tom.  There are Shakespeare's Sisters of all races out there.  Many of whom could've been, and should be now, encouraged to enter and embrace politics.  It would fit perfectly with Obama's rhetoric.

    Kudos anyway to Tom.

    Yeah (5.00 / 1) (#16)
    by Steve M on Mon Jun 16, 2008 at 07:22:33 PM EST
    That's a really insightful post.  Applying the point to a different line of work, it always gets me when I see highly-skilled female athletes "retiring" in their mid-20s in order to focus on raising a family.  There's nothing wrong with that decision, of course, but you just can't help but think about the fact that male athletes in their mid-20s never seem to feel like they have to make that choice one way or the other.

    Well, my mother has been known to rant (5.00 / 1) (#18)
    by andgarden on Mon Jun 16, 2008 at 07:24:28 PM EST
    about women who expect "mommy track" jobs. She juggled it all. But it really shouldn't have to be a choice.

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    Culinary provides a decent stepping stone (none / 0) (#34)
    by JavaCityPal on Mon Jun 16, 2008 at 08:12:40 PM EST
    to other food-related careers, though. My niece recently retired from her career as a renowned chef in NC. 5-diamond level restaurants. She always knew it wouldn't be a career that would take her to retirement. Not only dominated by men, but also dominated by the young.

    The hours and the stamina required are gruelling. When she wasn't in the kitchen, she was creating new recipes, shopping for dishes, and designing the presentation for her creations. She owned her own French Bistro for 3 years and finally decided it was time to change her focus and leave the kitchen. She's currently back in school getting a food science degree.

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    The weird thing about TOP CHEF (5.00 / 2) (#17)
    by Dadler on Mon Jun 16, 2008 at 07:23:03 PM EST
    And this is coming from someone who likes it...is the viewing audience cannot, like any other show or competition, actually experience what the contestants create and compete WITH.  In every other show (American Idol, Project Runway, America's Top Undertaker, World's Best Sword Swallower, whatever) you can see or hear what is actually being judged.  With TOP CHEF you can't taste the food, you can only see it and see reactions to it.  So I can never really have an opinion of the food only of the person who made it.  Kind of what the MSM does with news.  They don't actually give it to you, they simply plate it and serve it to their liking.

    I hate watching (5.00 / 2) (#20)
    by JustJennifer on Mon Jun 16, 2008 at 07:24:51 PM EST
    when I am hungry.  Everything they make looks 100 times better than anything I have around the house to eat.

    They do incorporate a wide variety of guest chefs, so I think there is some diversity of tastes when it comes to the judging.

    Can you tell I am a big fan?  LOL

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    And the final was in Puerto Rico (none / 0) (#21)
    by Dadler on Mon Jun 16, 2008 at 07:25:17 PM EST
    I bet Tent was chowing down at the semifinal party.

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    Culinary World and Women (5.00 / 1) (#19)
    by befuddledvoter on Mon Jun 16, 2008 at 07:24:38 PM EST
    It is still all about men, at least the better restaurants are.  I waitressed for far too long so I know.  Not only is the kitchen reserved for men, in the higher end restaurants, there are usually waiters, not waitresses.  It is changing but only recently.  

    The hours are grueling for the most part and not great for women with families. You work all the holidays also which can be a terrible burden for mothers.  The thing is though, it should be the woman's choice and not all women have child care responsibilities.  I did not and do not.

     

    But? (5.00 / 1) (#22)
    by JustJennifer on Mon Jun 16, 2008 at 07:27:53 PM EST
    What about men who work those same hours?  They need to be present at home too.  And shouldn't they be just as concerned as a mother about quality child care?

    I think I would call the industry not very family friendly in general because of the hours.  But to put the onus on the woman only when it comes to raising children is part of the problem.

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    Men just do not think that way (5.00 / 3) (#27)
    by befuddledvoter on Mon Jun 16, 2008 at 07:35:29 PM EST
    I am a professioanal woman.  When I first started out I felt I needed a wife to compete, if you know what I mean.  

    The onus on women just begins with child care. I am caring for my 90 year old mother.  Men do not do that for the most part.  I think they are wired differently and I think it is societal.  


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    OH yeah.. (none / 0) (#35)
    by JustJennifer on Mon Jun 16, 2008 at 08:17:45 PM EST
    I know exactly what you mean.  I am divorced...share joint custody with my ex-husband.  He has remarried and she is a stay at home mom.  She has been an absolute lifesaver for me as a working mom.  If it weren't for her I don't know what I would do about child care.  I jokingly refer to her as my stay at home wife too.  

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    BTD (5.00 / 1) (#25)
    by Ga6thDem on Mon Jun 16, 2008 at 07:34:34 PM EST
    eh, a gentleman and a scholar!

    I wish I had paid more attention to your blogging about Summers back then. It is all so relevant now.

    Icon (5.00 / 1) (#42)
    by nellre on Mon Jun 16, 2008 at 09:39:21 PM EST
    Hillary is really an icon.
    It give me hope.

    I love Stephanie (4.00 / 1) (#28)
    by roadburdened on Mon Jun 16, 2008 at 07:38:59 PM EST
    I thought Hillary was a Stephanie/Lisa combo. She had Lisa's confidence and Stephanie's skills. We'll see if Obama comes up with a Richard choke.

    Well, (none / 0) (#33)
    by ghost2 on Mon Jun 16, 2008 at 08:11:18 PM EST
    Apparently, Richard is a really nice guy, so no need to put him in a negative frame like this.  

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    Well (none / 0) (#37)
    by roadburdened on Mon Jun 16, 2008 at 08:56:11 PM EST
    Obama has better tofu.

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    Hillary is the new Rocky. (none / 0) (#30)
    by Marco21 on Mon Jun 16, 2008 at 07:46:13 PM EST
    Suck it, Stallone. :)

    Grit. (none / 0) (#36)
    by masslib on Mon Jun 16, 2008 at 08:53:05 PM EST
    Have we ever had leadership with true grit in this country?  I don't recall.

    FDR (5.00 / 1) (#40)
    by nellre on Mon Jun 16, 2008 at 09:31:12 PM EST
    Arguably, Harry Truman (none / 0) (#38)
    by andgarden on Mon Jun 16, 2008 at 09:06:01 PM EST
    But I don't exactly idolize him the way some Democrats do.

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    I think that Stephanie... (none / 0) (#41)
    by kredwyn on Mon Jun 16, 2008 at 09:34:35 PM EST
    was the better chef once you take away all of the fancy toys that Richard liked to play with.

    She had a style all of her own and went about making great food.

    ok (none / 0) (#43)
    by progrocks on Mon Jun 16, 2008 at 10:35:26 PM EST
    And Derek Jeter is a better defensive shortstop than Jose Reyes if you take away the glove of Reyes.

    Except the glove is an acceptable tool in baseball, just like "fancy toys" are in the kitchen. From El Bulli to French Laundry, boundaries are pushed with "fancy toys".

    Richard spent a lot of time learning how to use them and making good food, don't hate the playa, hate the game.

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    Who said anything about hating Richard? (none / 0) (#44)
    by kredwyn on Mon Jun 16, 2008 at 10:45:43 PM EST
    Hmmm?

    I'm perfectly capable of liking both but thinking that one had a better end game than the other.

    And from what I saw, part of that end game was that Richard went too far into his head and over thought his dishes (part of which was the toys). He as much as admitted that was one of the reasons he choked.

    My thought here is that sometimes we rely too heavily on the gadgets...and that reliance can cost us when it comes to the end product.

    Sure the toys are great. But when it comes to making good food...locate the balance, and don't let the tail wag the dog.

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